thank you RBC for that example. when i say agressive i mean biting, shoving my head down, dirty talk where im being called a bitch, trying to force fingers in my ass, etc.
im naming off stuff thats has happened before. DH i will definently hit up up for a more "guys point of view" and RBC any providing advice. ty all for listening. and thank you for support. i only want to get better at what i do. im always willing to learn and try new things