I am an old TSML/ASPDer who has been out of the life for some time. During those days I worked for a local major sports team that shall be unmentioned so I had to remain anonymous. Anonymity is your friend!
I agree that getting back in (as a hobbyist) has it's requirements. My P411 account has expired, and PC is no longer around. Some of the girls here that I have seen probably won't remember me since it was so long ago. I think you just have to see who will see you, get known, get P411 renewed(!) and go from there.
The Chef aka The Pro Chef