hmmm...ok so what if the providers have a form you could fill out ahead of time? Something for you to list your preferences and what you wish you experience to be like?? would that be too weird?Michelle, there is a great website that the ladies use for screening their gentlemen called preferred411. It has a section that we fella's can fill out that tells a little about us and our likes and dislikes. I think it is a great way for the ladies to learn about us.
That way, everyone knows ahead of time who likes what... if that is already in place then dont laugh at me! lol Originally Posted by lil_michelle
I would show up naked if I could. Originally Posted by monkmonk
While I totally and completely understand what y'all are saying, I think you overlook the variety factor. What you guys are saying you LOVE, another guy might find invasive or "weird." Good as some of us are at reading you, we are not mind readers. Communication is key!Hmm ... Please keep in mind I am still kinda new to ECCIE, and still picking up things some by reading and just getting a sense, some by Q&A and I for one just heard of P411 upon arriving here. OK deep breath and take this for what it is, Communication While I'd have to agree it is very important on both sides you don't know how many times I have read an ad that says 'I don't talk about anything over the phone' AND Most women tend to expect a guy to know what he is doing and do it. I have even asked RL women I have dated for tips, hints, how she likes it etc. and was told that is a real turn off and or if I have to tell you it kills the mood or what's the point. I have even noticed some of the ads and web sites here say don't talk about this or that as well. I kinda understand while I am stripping she is going to 'hide my gift' and what ever last minute things that could not have been done before she opened the door. I for one think it is sexy as hell not only for her to undress me but to also help her out of some of her clothes too. I may not ask for it for some of the above and or also thinking I don't want to cream my pants before they are even off. I have been thinking about sex not just sinse I was 13 but for a few days, deciding on whom I wanted to spend my time and money with, waiting on her to screen, working out our schedules, driving over while still trying to think enough with the big head to drive safe. Then even if she is a no rush type of provider we both only have so much time. I for one have written a few reviews on TER before I found this site most were bad but honest so being with out too many reviews my screening takes a bit longer. I also like to see a new girl pretty often. Then again I am reminded of the old saying you get what you pay for and have yet to have a '10' or a 'I saw the face of God' type of session.
Let me give you an example:
I read a thread months ago about guys saying basically that we ladies are too quick to jump out of our clothes. The guys were saying they wanted the chance to undress us. I took it to heart, and started incorporating it in some sessions. What do I see? Mixed reactions. Some are delighted, but I also quite often saw a look of suspicion or disappointment that I wasn't "naked and ready" in their eyes. What the effin hell?! I couldn't win!
So please keep in mind that what you seek may be something I would enjoy doing VERY MUCH! But previous negative reactions by others may prevent me from doing such a thing of my own volition. I reiterate: Communication Is Key!! Originally Posted by tracibrooks
hmmm...ok so what if the providers have a form you could fill out ahead of time? Something for you to list your preferences and what you wish you experience to be like?? would that be too weird?That's exactly why I ask providers to read my P411 profile. Before I book, I ask them to read and comment on the kind of session she thinks we'll have. Some do, most don't. If a provider replies, "so, when do you want to see me?", I drop her off the list.
That way, everyone knows ahead of time who likes what... if that is already in place then dont laugh at me! lol Originally Posted by lil_michelle