Do you fantasize while having sex with a provider?

Do you fantasize while having sex with a provider?
It's been so long, I can't remember.
Maybe it's my age, but the provider I see, my ATF, is who I fantasize about. I enjoy being with Her that much.

But keep in mind, this entire "hobbyist-provider" thing is a fantacy anyway.
whitechocolate's Avatar
When I am with a hot provider, the fun is having all sorts of fantasies involving that provider.
pickupkid's Avatar
So you guys don't dream of being with favorite porn star or movie star....you must have a a different provider list than mine
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So ... there are actually guys who pay $300 an hour (or more) to play with an escort just so he can fantasize about another lady?

Gawd help me but that is just plain screwed up, in my opinion. Isn't that what masturbation is for?
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I have been told by providers that they are sometimes asked to roleplay the SO but in a "very slutty" way. This probably allows the client to fantasize that his SO is a "slut" when she is in reality quite boring sexually and allows him to be turned on when with her.
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I have been told by providers that they are sometimes asked to roleplay the SO but in a "very slutty" way. This probably allows the client to fantasize that his SO is a "slut" when she is in reality quite boring sexually and allows him to be turned on when with her. Originally Posted by whitechocolate
Never experienced that...

Interesting to say the least..
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Naomi, you should ask clients if they would like you to roleplay their SO as a wild nympho type and see what they say. There are a lot of guys who wish they had a nympho wife at least while they are fucking her. Some providers seem to have that on their fantasy menu.
When I'm with Valerie, I fantasize about being with Naomi!! It is a very economical way of doubling and it will make your head spin!!
When I'm with Valerie, I fantasize about being with Naomi!! It is a very economical way of doubling and it will make your head spin!! Originally Posted by Ed Highlight
You mean "When you were with Valerie"...past tense!
You mean "When you were with Valerie"...past tense! Originally Posted by Valerie
I figure when I'm with Naomi I'll be able to fantasize about you and return the favor!!

By the way, I didn't actually do that when I were with Valerie (that doesn't work) but I was just thinking it might be a good idea!!
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I think he meant exactly what he said valerie. He is probably fantasizing about you right now
I think he meant exactly what he said valerie. He is probably fantasizing about you right now Originally Posted by Eccie Addict
Although with Valerie, it's not called fantasizing....it's called remembering!!
I think he meant exactly what he said valerie. He is probably fantasizing about you right now Originally Posted by Eccie Addict
He ain't the only one
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Ed, when you are with either Naomi or Valerie, it is probably impossible to think of anything or anybody but them. That would defy the first law of erotic fantasy and seduction.