I see many of the encounter reports have DFK and DATY in it, and my friends who introduced me to the hobby tells me never to do those because of STD risk.
I'm no expert in sexed so I'm asking you guys how you guys make decision?
Originally Posted by squirtle
You are not likely to get anything from kissing other than potentially herpes. Not saying all other infections are impossible, just very unlikely. Remember, herpes can be spread through non sexual contact, such as shaking someone's hand. It can also effect almost any body part. For instance, there are herpes infections of the eye.
There's a chance you could get gonorrhea and other infections from DATY, but that's dependent on your partner being infected. Even if she is, there's no guarantee the infection will spread to you.
It's not something I would worry about. If there's an usually strong odor near her pelvis, might want to think twice about the DATY. Same for any visible signs of infection. You are not likely to get HIV from anything oral as the saliva in the mouth is hostile to the virus; though there is a very remote chance.