Wouldn't the guy then be the judgmental type? You could never be 100% honest about your past/current profession.
Is that the necessary evil for a provider to hide their occupation for the sake of a relationship?
Originally Posted by mwebber
Being able to forgive or overlook what someone "used to do" is not the same thing, as "not giving a crap about your woman sucking strange d*ck" while you're together. Some people don't want to share the one person they love...others both agree it's cool.
I don't understand this and never will, but I do know many happy couples who are in these types of relationships. How or why they do it, is really none of my business. I have had it explained to me a million times, and still don't get it. That's not their problem to make me understand anymore...just like it's not for people who don't believe in cheating to make you understand lol.
For those of us who choose to be with only one person, it's a character flaw if that person does not give a crap about us banging strangers just for the fun of it. We choose to avoid those people for serious relationships, just as swingers avoid us lol. I can travel, go sky diving, or go to the beach if I want to have fun...I don't need meaningless sex to enhance my civie relationships.