There is a disturbance in the hobby force.

Thank you Kayla for reminding me of brighter times. I have tried three times to draft a positive response to your post, and three times I have drifted into negative turf.

Suffice it to say that I believe any lady can blow me. My quest is for the one who can also blow my mind. There was a time where I could read the boards and find the ladies who presented themselves as both playful and intelligent. And frequently not without strong opinion. Wynterstark, Autumn Stark, ~Ze~, Grace Preston, Shae Veile, Reese Foster, TNT Angie, EmilyEzzell, Heather Winston, TheOriginalDannie, Kelly TNT all routinely caught my attention, made me think, made me laugh, and teased the hell out of me. Things were fun, playful, respectful, and relatively safe or as safe as this hobby gets. And while a few of these ladies still offer the occasional post, I miss the days where that was the general tone of the board.

Maybe things will cycle back around and people will get back to playing nice in the sandbox. Or maybe that's just wishful thinking.

Thank you Kayla for reminding me of brighter times. I have tried three times to draft a positive response to your post, and three times I have drifted into negative turf.

Suffice it to say that I believe any lady can blow me. My quest is for the one who can also blow my mind. There was a time where I could read the boards and find the ladies who presented themselves as both playful and intelligent. And frequently not without strong opinion. Wynterstark, Autumn Stark, ~Ze~, Grace Preston, Shae Veile, Reese Foster, TNT Angie, EmilyEzzell, Heather Winston, TheOriginalDannie, Kelly TNT all routinely caught my attention, made me think, made me laugh, and teased the hell out of me. Things were fun, playful, respectful, and relatively safe or as safe as this hobby gets. And while a few of these ladies still offer the occasional post, I miss the days where that was the general tone of the board.

Maybe things will cycle back around and people will get back to playing nice in the sandbox. Or maybe that's just wishful thinking. Originally Posted by Caleb

A girlfriend or wife is suppose to do that for you.

kayla wrote ...
"Let's have fun again. Seriously, if it's not fun then what's the point?"

hear hear hear!!!!!!!!!!


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No ones blamed Obama yet?

Kayla thanks for reminding us of the good old days... Know I must get on my horse and giddy on up.

A girlfriend or wife is suppose to do that for you. Originally Posted by Wolfwhistle

And there is the operative word.

There's a whole lot more to my hobby experience than just getting my dick wet.

And there is the operative word.

There's a whole lot more to my hobby experience than just getting my dick wet. Originally Posted by Caleb

Good point. Easier said than done.

And there is the operative word.

There's a whole lot more to my hobby experience than just getting my dick wet. Originally Posted by Caleb

Good point. Easier said than done. Originally Posted by Wolfwhistle

Yup! Wasn't it Chris Rock that said the Monica Lewinsky scandal was Hillary's fault? She should've been sucking his dick already, telling Monica "I got this, I got this, tickle his ass or somethin!"

A really good topic, Kayla. And I'm sincerely glad to see you back posting!!!

One of the reasons why I still post, and try to start topics as well, because the best clients that you'll find (well, most of the time!) are going to be the ones that lurk. Read.

Study. Observe. Well, you already know that, don't you?

The negativity has gotten really bad here but it was always there, even back in the day. Now, though, I see people being just awful and not verbalizing as well while doing so. So perhaps it's more obvious?

But I also believe that the vile behaviors that we're seeing so much of on this board is a more reflective microcosm of the way the internet has grown, overall. The vulgarity, overt rudeness (and acceptance of such behavior), and the "meanness" that is so obviously happening online these days, reflects a societal change and anonymity (as presented in the article above about trolls) allows free reign with those to whom causing pain, and conflict, provides them joy and with little or no repercussions.

It's all related in this web of life thing that is going on. Sometimes, I'll read something, Kayla ... and it's easy to feel all bummed out (the latest Vi debacle is a prime example). How disappointing some people turn out to be (who should know better)!

What IS so very nice, though, is when a wonderful person contacts you and just is a delight. It still happens. But for me, I have to trudge through a lot of declined appointments, or someone refusing to screen, before finding those diamonds.

Used to be a lot of those types of guys around. Now? With the glutted market in Texas? That really adds to the negativity that you're seeing so much more frequently.

Just my few thoughts.

Hope all is well with you, Kayla.

Best regards,
Elisabeth

A really good topic, Kayla. And I'm sincerely glad to see you back posting!!!

One of the reasons why I still post, and try to start topics as well, because the best clients that you'll find (well, most of the time!) are going to be the ones that lurk. Read.

Study. Observe. Well, you already know that, don't you?

The negativity has gotten really bad here but it was always there, even back in the day. Now, though, I see people being just awful and not verbalizing as well while doing so. So perhaps it's more obvious?

But I also believe that the vile behaviors that we're seeing so much of on this board is a more reflective microcosm of the way the internet has grown, overall. The vulgarity, overt rudeness (and acceptance of such behavior), and the "meanness" that is so obviously happening online these days, reflects a societal change, overall.

It's all related in this web of life thing that is going on. Sometimes, I'll read something, Kayla ... and it's easy to feel all bummed out (the latest Vi debacle is a prime example). How disappointing some people are (who should know better)!

What IS so very nice, though, is when a wonderful person contacts you and just is a delight. It still happens. But for me, I have to trudge through a lot of declined appointments, or someone refusing to screen, before finding those diamonds.

Used to be a lot of those types of guys around. Now? With the glutted market in Texas? That really adds to the negativity that you're seeing so much more frequently.

Just my few thoughts.

Hope all is well with you, Kayla.

Best regards,
Elisabeth Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

She means regulars. People don't know how to socialize anymore. They rather play with their technology toys like texting on their phones than have a normal conversation.

There's a whole lot more to my hobby experience than just getting my dick wet. Originally Posted by Caleb

And therein lies a topic for a whole 'bother thread -- which would probably wind up being dominated by the type of people the OP was thinking about.

Anyway, Caleb, your statement is one reason I have been celibate since early October.

... People don't know how to socialize anymore. They rather play with their technology toys like texting on their phones than have a normal conversation. Originally Posted by Wolfwhistle

I know how to socialize. I am a people. I despise my technology. I love conversation, although I don't know what "normal" has to do with anything.

God, I hate generalizations.

Honestly I dont give a rats ass what everyone does on this board just as long as I am not in it because I dont belong there. Other than that I want some dick because Im horny. Im always horny so that is what I am on this board for. And possibly I love pussy too hell. So chicka you should not care about others her worry about yourself and lovely gentleman that steps through your door. Have a lovely day eccie.

I don't like reading but i do like f*cking. Didn't read any of the posts in this thread because they were simply too long winded, but im guessing its probably about drama. This hobby is meant to get away from drama and escape into the fantasy of sexual enjoyment. thats all folks.

Reading threads would probably be a good idea at this point, bobo. Have you checked out pornhub lately? Lol. I kid I kid. I'm sure you have.

I haven't been around half as long as some of these other ladies, but ya the BS off the board is getting worse. Triffling hos, jealousy, backhanded bullshit, dumbass fucktards who think they're slick. I just laugh it off because I can bob and weave with the best of them but its crazy how much people put into this shit. Just fuck and go about your business. No need to be caddy on the sly or an all out psycho. Who the fuck has time for that? Must be nice.