What exactly is GFE

To me a GFE experience is more the it makes you feel inside like Cindy mentioned earlier. For me I love a touch of the submissive side such as a little chit chat in your lap with some LFK, it's kind of hard to explain either you feel it or you don't and when you don't that's when I consider it an IOP

I think Mark had a great point about what GFE is NOT .

The sexiest , hottest body , beautiful face and wide open menu - sucks when they don't want to be there. Some don't even try to fake it ? The hottest sessions like I had with THN were hot because we both had a great time ! No faking just good chemistry and great sex.

I think the best GFE has you thinking afterward, despite all logic and reason telling you that it was just her job, "I think she might actually like me."

To me gfe is like a first date .u know those butterfly flutters in ur stomach .laughter .chemistry .,passion Originally Posted by SimplyCindy

First dates...bad analogy. 1st dates NEVER got me even lfk...let alone any type of passion. Firsts dates r just n intro, nothing else.

How hard can it be guys to describe/define GFE (girlfriend experience says it all). It's only questionable to those who missed out on having a girlfriend. Girlfriends treat u like u r their one n only! Their IOP translates LFK/DFK/DATY/BBBJ n of course, let's not forget, the sex...into another dimension...meeting all ur instinctive carnal expectations n desires...but demonstrated mutually.

Milfy2002 hit the nail on the head:
" I've always thought GFE meant that the IOP is damn near flawless, or it's actual passion.

I'd expect it to include lfk, dfk, BBBJ, DATY, and anything else a normal healthy guy would expect out of his steady girlfriend, MINUS the bitching, clinginess, and other strings attached to said girlfriend."

First dates...bad analogy. 1st dates NEVER got me even lfk...let alone any type of passion. Firsts dates r just n intro, nothing else.

How hard can it be guys to describe/define GFE (girlfriend experience says it all). It's only questionable to those who missed out on having a girlfriend. Girlfriends treat u like u r their one n only! Their IOP translates LFK/DFK/DATY/BBBJ n of course, let's not forget, the sex...into another dimension...meeting all ur instinctive carnal expectations n desires...but demonstrated mutually.

Milfy2002 hit the nail on the head:
" I've always thought GFE meant that the IOP is damn near flawless, or it's actual passion.

I'd expect it to include lfk, dfk, BBBJ, DATY, and anything else a normal healthy guy would expect out of his steady girlfriend, MINUS the bitching, clinginess, and other strings attached to said girlfriend." Originally Posted by Gottahavit55

that's me! lol

The passion is absolutely correct but the activities depend the specific needs of each individual and the willingness for her to do said activities w/o question. As long as i get the passion, i dont care what activities take place. But when it's true passion then some freaky things are bound to occur.

YMMV

I think everyone has a slightly different view of it, but if I leave feeling they enjoyed their time with me as much as I did with them that's good enough for me

So is GFE the Best IOP or is IOP the Best Of GFE?

IMHO: It depends on how you define the GF in GFE.

Some of the GFs in RW are way less passionate than the ladies in the providers world so I am of the opinion of using passion (IOP) for passion and GFE for coziness (but not real Passion with a capital P.).

Some ladies in the provider space can have real Passion, not just the Illusion side. Read reviews... Am I wrong?

Both are nice though... I will take a "breathless P" over a "cozy G" any day. It is so specific to every person image of a GF in GFE that we will not have a 100 percent consensus.....

I think the best GFE has you thinking afterward, despite all logic and reason telling you that it was just her job, "I think she might actually like me." Originally Posted by trexxxs

^^^^^^^^^THIS!^^^^^^^^^^

Maybe each of us are looking for that "something" that is missing from our personal civilian lives...and we define it GFE.

GFE is IOP (the provider wants you as much as you want her and you can tell), BBBJ, passionate French kissing (again IOP) and DATY along with MPCFS.

Anything less is not GFE IMO so I rarely, if ever, consider GFE a good description of what a provider has to offer. GFE, on its own is a catch all BS term and GFE lite is a complete joke.

My opinion but I think most guys would agree.

Maybe there should be a new category. IOGFE (Illusion of girlfriend experience) Rather then it being similar to a RW girlfriend, It is what you fantasize a girlfirend should be.

Maybe there should be a new category. IOGFE (Illusion of girlfriend experience) Rather then it being similar to a RW girlfriend, It is what you fantasize a girlfirend should be. Originally Posted by bobo1cg

+1 , IOGFE is closer to reality! I like it !

... I might add a P into it for Passionate or Perfect ... ( IOPGFE ?)

I think I can go along with all that with the emphasis being friends. I think that's what I enjoy most about this hobby is the amount of friends I have made, not an impression of or an illusion of but truly friendly people.

I think I can go along with all that with the emphasis being friends. I think that's what I enjoy most about this hobby is the amount of friends I have made, not an impression of or an illusion of but truly friendly people. Originally Posted by Goose2u

Goose, You are right as usual. ...Making friends, being friendly and no attitudes is really the refreshing part of it. ...that is the main course.
.... But I like passion too if I can give & get some ... that is dessert ...

Lol bingo Ashi