That arithmetic is correct of course. But the assumptions are just that--assumptions. I do not know Alyssa's business, and those numbers may be accurate for her, and some others, but it is not accurate for many ladies--most, I would guess but I don't have vast data.
Most ladies do not work that volume consistently, and for many the expenses are significantly more than men want to understand.
I think we would all agree that in an ideal world every lady--every person--would have financial reserves. But that is not reality for many reasons.
I think almost all would also agree that people here have no obligation to help others in need.
But if some here do choose to help people in a bad situation, I find nothing wrong with that either.
Originally Posted by Old-T
I get where you are coming from but this to me is a case by case basis and should be kept private. If we're on this site, trust, we're already thinking about it. But without me getting too deep into it, there's just a code. Out of the usual bonds between client/provider IMO should be kept under wraps and treated like private personal friendships/relationships. I DO NOT want to know who and what provider client is BBFS or getting free bees or discounts b/c they've got an understanding. That's none of my business.
I remember having a discussion with a wonderful traveling provider. She was a bit privileged in mindset and why not, she was early twenties and a knock out. She kept wondering why I'd never give in to her 5k a month sugar fee. We started going over scenarios relating to other men, age, profession, income, and ability to carry such a lifestyle.
When I brought up an example - What if said gentleman has a family crisis. Two kids lost scholarships and need a financial attention to continue med school and another family member is in the hospital with cancer, does he continue with his re-occurring $3k/month to his sugar baby? Does she in this difficult time provide him comfort and solutions to these family problems or is she going to just do what she does and buy clothes and mind her business in her expensive condo - fucking other guys too.
The argument stopped there.