Never take it off. You risk losing it. Besides, it's easier to tell that you usually wear one and took it off.
The whole point here is ironically about trust. you need to trust her and she will trust you.
I've been asked by just about every provider I see if I have a gf or something, not sure if it's just usual getting to know you questions or the fact that I'm fairly young so it might be a shock that someone with a gf or wife would be out slutting around.
I asked a provider about it one time and she said ladies ask because they can trust married guys more, there's less chance of a married guy falling in love with a provider or trying to date her or whatever. Made sense at the time. Dunno how true that is though.
I always thought it was weird to be asked though. If I'm under 30 and have a gf why would I need to be seeing providers? I thought it wasn't until the late 30s early 40s that the passion dies down.
It honestly doesn't matter. It's as his comfort level. I find some gents take it off out of respect for their wives....it may sound crazy but the enjoy our time more without it...even though I know they are married.
Some don't want to lose it, so they take it off.
Others don't care.
Honestly, the ring on or off doesn't bother me either way. You never know someones marriage, I have had this conversation many of times.. I've heard many different reasons why married men love to be with us ladies.. & I don't see a problem with a little fun