My ATF's are gentlemen who took the time to research me and know a little about me before they arrived on my door step the first time. They keep in touch when we can not be together, but do not blow up my phone and email daily. They treat me like a lover and a friend. They are just as considerate of my feelings and desires as I try to be of theirs. They know who they are....xoxo Originally Posted by M A XMax, great post. I have a lady or two that I interact with in the same fashion, and feel the same way about. That way, when we do actually get together, it really is a caring, mutually enjoyable encounter...
- Tony Patella
- 11-22-2010, 06:56 AM
- Sir Lancehernot
- 11-22-2010, 09:05 AM
I had two ATFs in succession, several years ago. I got spoiled and thought finding them was pretty easy; but it's been 10 years since No. 2 e-mailed me to tell me ofher retirement, and no one has come close since.
What made them special? Well, for starters, they had the basics covered. They were slender and petite with no piercings, body art or implants; it almost goes without saying that they were excellent in bed; they gave head as if they really enjoyed it; and they allowed me to believe that I was giving them pleasure in return.
Both were relatively UTR. Although I can never be sure, I'm willing to wager that their careers as escorts would come as a great shock to just about everyone in their "treal world" who knew them. That was a significant part of their allure -- they gave every appearance of being women that, had we met outside the hobby, I might actually be interested in seeing, AND whom I would have no reservations about taking home to meet my parents.
Though of course I knew they had many other clients, not knowing exactly how many allowed me to indulge myself in the delusion that I might have been one of a relatively few and avoid the reality check that comes when reading ads promising a "hot time" or "blow-away" experience for any guy who shows up with $x00 in his wallet.
Both remembered things about me that enabled them to pick up conversations where we'd left them the time before.
Both evidenced a sense of trust in me that manifested itself in our BCD activities and conversations. Both let me into their lives, telling me things that a client had no need to know about their families and their "real world." Both cried on my shoulders a time or two.
One called me every so often to say hello, even though our meetings were becoming increasingly rare; the other wasn't much of a phone person but welcomed the opportunity to e-mail every now and then.
Both made me feel that our relationship was more than transaction-based, and to a guy for whom the hobby is the only way to have some female companionship, that was very important.
What made them special? Well, for starters, they had the basics covered. They were slender and petite with no piercings, body art or implants; it almost goes without saying that they were excellent in bed; they gave head as if they really enjoyed it; and they allowed me to believe that I was giving them pleasure in return.
Both were relatively UTR. Although I can never be sure, I'm willing to wager that their careers as escorts would come as a great shock to just about everyone in their "treal world" who knew them. That was a significant part of their allure -- they gave every appearance of being women that, had we met outside the hobby, I might actually be interested in seeing, AND whom I would have no reservations about taking home to meet my parents.
Though of course I knew they had many other clients, not knowing exactly how many allowed me to indulge myself in the delusion that I might have been one of a relatively few and avoid the reality check that comes when reading ads promising a "hot time" or "blow-away" experience for any guy who shows up with $x00 in his wallet.
Both remembered things about me that enabled them to pick up conversations where we'd left them the time before.
Both evidenced a sense of trust in me that manifested itself in our BCD activities and conversations. Both let me into their lives, telling me things that a client had no need to know about their families and their "real world." Both cried on my shoulders a time or two.
One called me every so often to say hello, even though our meetings were becoming increasingly rare; the other wasn't much of a phone person but welcomed the opportunity to e-mail every now and then.
Both made me feel that our relationship was more than transaction-based, and to a guy for whom the hobby is the only way to have some female companionship, that was very important.
- rrabbit6926
- 11-22-2010, 10:41 PM
I'm still new to hobby but so far my ATF makes me feel like being with her is not part of any service. We both enjoy each other's company and our time together is special.
- Nitwitboy
- 11-22-2010, 10:50 PM
I need to see Max. Hear great things about her feet as well.
- daty/o
- 11-23-2010, 12:55 AM
If the chemistry between you is so strong that every time you want to go play and sample all the variety that the Dallas Hobby has to offer and she is the first one you think about...
- Guest091314
- 11-23-2010, 04:32 PM
I love it when a man can actually look into my eyes (eye contact is a brownie point with me) with passion. Gives me a deep kiss and the slight touch of his hand on my face, that makes me melt every time.