I’m just curious...

double post ..

I have no problems talking to a lady on the phone

I have only had a request to call a few times. Never bothered me at all as there was no discussion of rates or services and she just confirmed time and place. They have generally been no longer than one minute.

I think the ladies just wanted to make sure that the voice and demeanor of the person on the other end of the line aligned with her expectations based on pre-visit communications (PMs, texts) and feedback from references. Originally Posted by Pbmgd

WINNA!

Not a problem for me. I understand that these ladies are putting a lot on the line by meeting with total strangers, so I’m fine with doing just about anything they ask to make them feel safe/comfortable before the visit. Plus, I’m single so I don’t have to worry about anyone going through my phone. Lol.

I’ve never been asked to call but if I were it wouldn’t be a problem. On another note, the “just because you’ve been screened doesn’t mean you’ve been screened” never gets old. Screening is the second oldest profession in the world. Right? I know this is getting me zero points (and I like points) but I do love y’all. Lol!

I think it may be the timing. If the guy can get away at that particular time. If you have my references and I'm clear then you would like to talk I think that is cool. I think guys may feel its a bit too much if you want to talk right out of the gate. Its easier for us to be clandestine through a text message sitting right next to our SO than it is to make a phone call. To do that requires a bit more logistics.