Nonsense! I know for a fact that the reason of wanting to be liked makes people sugarcoat the reviews. I do agree with you that it's only fair to let others know and that this decency is not necessarily a good thing in this case.
Originally Posted by China Doll
China,
I think "sugarcoating" of the reviews exists, and the reasons are threefold:
1. Men tend to like to "brag" a bit, perhaps. Writing a huge review of a Fantastic..Fabulous...Wonderif ic...Heavenly...experience may be as much patting themselves on the back as complimenting the lady. Men gotta feed that ego, right?
Not many men are gonna write about the fact that the one hour session ended 30 seconds into foreplay, right?
2. I think that hurting someones feelings may be the best answer, though. You are right, most people would tend not to want to be mean, in a public setting, where they expose themselves to hurtful rebuttals, perhaps..
3. I can also understand the apprehension of posting a negative review.....beside ending up feeling bad about doing it, protecting your ability to see other providers can very well play into this.
Bad reviews here are like bad reviews of any service or product....for every 100 great reviews, one bad one is all that people remember. And, I for one, would probably hesitate to harm someone like that. Unless, of course, something way over the line/dangerous occured.
Just my 3 cents.....
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