Excessive Communication w/ Providers?

Amen sista'!

Amber your wisdom is showing...


AND IT'S TURNING ME ON!!


I enjoy a fair amount of communication before meeting...(if it's possible). I prefer to get a "feel" for who they are. It gets me excited and revved up. I love flirty texts and pic msgs before and after, during the week, etc.
Guys (and some women--->ME) are very visual, so a few hot pic msgs are always welcome!
I also love sending as well Originally Posted by ItalianaPrincess

NICE... I'm so game for that to happen girlie... lol..
Come sit...
Watch...
Listen grasshopper.. (daniel son)...
.. I will shed some light on more subjects.. as long as Italiana Princess gets turned on...

hehehehhee

I chatted with Amber on the phone the day before our meeting. It was nice to speak with her and actually hear her voice versus just text in chat, email, or pm. I really enjoyed it, and the session was amazing.

Amber you can send me texts anytime babe.

My self personaly believe communication is the key! I love phone banter between myself and my client whispers here and there make things a little hotter..............
Kisses, Jaci
~The Mistress Expeirence~ Originally Posted by Jaci

I agree with you Jaci, communication is key. And it does make it hotter, whether the communication is via personal chat or phone, it definitely makes it better.

Master..aww it was amazing, huh? It helps when you get to hear a voice, sample the personality, and get a feel for the person about to walk thru your door.

You can tell on the phone if you will click or not by the coversation.

Master, shot you a text right now... don't raise the desk when you stand up.. once you read it.. lol

Master..aww it was amazing, huh? It helps when you get to hear a voice, sample the personality, and get a feel for the person about to walk thru your door.

You can tell on the phone if you will click or not by the coversation.

Master, shot you a text right now... don't raise the desk when you stand up.. once you read it.. lol Originally Posted by Amber Rain

It helps to be more comfortable if you have heard their voice.

I did not get a text. I pmed my number. I am guessing some guy got a text a good text and getting a little excited.

No, it was the number you called from google voice.. either way..sent you another.. lol

I like to set up dates well in advance by using P411 so the provider can check my profile and references. After getting the OK then I will text her with my phone number. I am retired and no one else in the house so I can talk any time. I feel the provider has many other things going on so I await her call. I like to talk to the provider before meeting her to see if she has a sense of humor and most times we will talk for 30 or 45 minutes.
After the first date I try to send an email every week or two. Like has been said before we are now friends. Every provider I see commutates with me every week or two so we keep in touch that way. I don't like to phone as she may be busy. An email she can answer at her leisure. Originally Posted by tucson

I like the emails also. Some times I am busy and do not want to text later and put any one in a bad situation. I too feel once I have seen some one, we are now friends, and I never mind talking, texting, email after the first visit. Like Amber said, if you want to get far in this hobby, then you go beyond just that date. Plus the more comfortable you become with that person, the better the sex gets!!!


By the way tuscon, I am enjoying Dallas!! The weathe is beautiful the last few days!!

I try to keep in-between-session contacts to a minimum. If I am not actively booking with someone, it's a time waster for them if I send off random messages, nursing some fictitious relationship that really doesn't exist.

I don't confuse my social life with my hobby life - I like to keep them simple and separate.

I love communication with the women I have met. Although, I hate worrying that I might be a nuisance more. I usually keep communication minimal unless initiated by the women.

Amber, if I sent you a txt everytime I thought about you then I would be a pest

Awww send em, baby.. send em.. trust me.. I'll respond.. i love hearing from ya'll and know that I'm on your mind.

Especially well after we've seen each other. Matter of fact, Mark, been wondering how ya been doing... hope to hear from you soon.

Guys, how many emails, text messages, and/or phone calls does it take for you to feel comfortable with seeing that provider? Do you prefer to continue to have a casual or erotic conversation with your ATFs between visits? Originally Posted by LadyCita

I prefer 3 or 4 PMs, text messages, and at least one phone call to feel comfortable seeing someone new.

I definitely prefer occasional text msgs between visits with my ATFs, to keep in contact and to build up the desire to see her again.

Where do the "business" and "pleasure" line lay? Originally Posted by LadyCita

That's an easy question... the business line is at the ATM...and the pleasure line is the line to your front door sweetie

See! This is interesting! Ive read a lot of interesting feeds and I hope the providers as well as the hobbyist/clients are taking notes on how to rub your partner the right way like I am.

Me, personaly, I like to keep in contact with my clients and build some sort of relationship with them. It makes the visits that much more comfortable. I like the steamy convo/texts/yahooIM's right before a visit. But all the time?
Then again, sometimes it comes back to bite me in my juciy ass, lol. This does not apply to everyone but some guys think that they are instantly due special privalages just because we get along and have good chemistry. Remember that as long we can get business out of the way, we can have as much pleasure as you want! YMMV baybee!!!
Then again, you can find a really good friend that you just click with in this hobby and dont mind spending time with. Hmmmm.....

I do not mind getting calls, texts or pm's, e-mails. It makes me smile each time. It can be annoying if a guy contacts me all day long, everyday.