provider dress code

I don't ask,but I think I liked it better when they open the door wrapped in a towel and still damp from the shower and taste like mouthwash.

I have occasionally been asked by a provider my preference to which I might express a preference but generally I leave it to the provider as part of the experience of seeing a provider for the first time is the lack of knowledge of what she will be wearing when you arrive, if anything! For subsequent visits I have been known to make suggestions, various things depending on the occasion and my mood as well as personality and style of the provider.

I like to wear stockings.

I like Bella's idea - generally that is my favorite way to be greeted.
I will ask someone I have met before if I have something special in mind, but like everything else, I like to see what they prefer the first time, what they have put into preparing for our meeting.

I love the wet hair towel look. Dressed up to me is somewhere between naked and a simple T-Shirt with nothing else.

Of course I do like that High School cheerleader look too but few can pull THAT off and be legal.

To me there is an art to getting ready I love to look and feel sexy even before a date and I even go to the point of putting on sensual music and looking in the mirror a couple of times to make sure I look absolutely purrfect .....

To me there is an art to getting ready I love to look and feel sexy even before a date and I even go to the point of putting on sensual music and looking in the mirror a couple of times to make sure I look absolutely purrfect ..... Originally Posted by stilettokitty

But what about when you are providing?

Personally I pride myself as a true sensualist and enjoy the playfulness that come along with this hobby. I have a deep interest in all things sensual and sexy and dressing up especially lingerie is just one of those topics on that list....don't get me wrong I have a bit of a wild streak and I love to explore my naughty side.

Personally I pride myself as a true sensualist and enjoy the playfulness that come along with this hobby. I have a deep interest in all things sensual and sexy and dressing up especially lingerie is just one of those topics on that list....don't get me wrong I have a bit of a wild streak and I love to explore my naughty side. Originally Posted by stilettokitty

You had me at sensual.............

If she is coming to my condo I expect her to dress like a friend coming over to hang out. LOW PROFILE! I am clear with them about this on the phone.
I had a provider recommend someone to me and the chick showed up looking like she just left the strip club(I am sure she did). Wearing no pants or shorts, just a shirt that barely covered he cunt and it left her ass cheeks flying out. OMG!!! Thank god it was after 10pm during the week in downtown FT, Worth and the sidewalks were rolled up.

Incall wise, I am not picky. Whatever she feels comfortable with.

I do the "Whatever you feel your hottest in, if asked." I do put my weekness for lingerie, hose and Fuck Me Heels in my P411 profile, it is bonus points if they read it and dress accordingly.

I did a hotel outcall with a lady and she could not get into the hotel. Met my interests to a T,but came through the lobby in the shortest dress I have ever seen, no panties and High Heels and I had to come down and get her... A bit embarrassing to say the least....

I always request attire. The sensual dance of preparation is a huge turn on for me. I must admit that my requests also stem from providers in cut offs or jeans who "appeared" to not give a shit. I want to feel like I was worth the time for them to have gotten into a look for me. Even with the most beautiful lady, if I feel like I am the next number in line it won't work. I guess I am a sucker for the illusion of romance ---and part of that illusion is the dress.

Also, I dress nicely when I see someone as well--it is kind of a date. And the proverbial saying in this case is true, you only have one chance to make a good first impression. so I dress nicely in order to improve my chances of the provider being into me as much as I am into her (no pun intended).

To hell with how they look. The illusion of them caring is just that...an illusion. What is important is how they are once they get naked. I want them to be THEMSELVES and not what they think I want. There is a sensuality in being yourself.

If you are a sweats type of person, wear sweats. If you are a blue jean type of person, wear that. The biggest turnoff to me is opening the door and looking like you stepped out of Victoria Secrets.

I still say the sexiest attire to me is a sleep T-shirt and nothing else. Its real, its normal, and in most cases it is comfortable for them. Just be yourself. I always loved it when Ashley Ash opened the door in a T-Shirt. THAT was hot.

I want them to be THEMSELVES and not what they think I want. There is a sensuality in being yourself.

If you are a sweats type of person, wear sweats. If you are a blue jean type of person, wear that. The biggest turnoff to me is opening the door and looking like you stepped out of Victoria Secrets.

I still say the sexiest attire to me is a sleep T-shirt and nothing else. Its real, its normal, and in most cases it is comfortable for them. Just be yourself. I always loved it when Ashley Ash opened the door in a T-Shirt. THAT was hot. Originally Posted by Introuble

Wow! Exactly my thoughts!

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j/k - I don't wear glasses.