Is a guide like this helpful for you (ladies) prior to a session?

WOW, yes what ANONONE wrote turned me on. Do I feel that other ladies and gentlemen would benefit if the guys had a list of the kind of things they liked to do? Yes, personally it's important to me to find out what someone likes, as pleasing my partner turns me on. Now it would have to be kept personal, not just something they read on the internet...but things that really turn them on...or things they would like to try. Distinguishing between the two. If a potential 'friend' is p411, I read his entire profile, trying to get a feel for what they enjoy. Most times I will try to chat online, to develope a little chemestry before meeting someone. It makes for a much hotter time together, so having something like this may help also. Kisses, Lace

I saw the above link on ANONONE's sig line with a title something like "Please read before BCD time with ANONONE"

Basically it is a very detailed description on of likes/dislikes/preferences/dealbreakers etc. I'd encourage you to click on the link and read in his own words, not mine. [& for the record, you sickos, I was not looking to set up BCD time with ANON, just curious about the link...let's nip those jokes in the bud]

? Originally Posted by atlcomedy

I think atl is ANONONE....or ANONE is atl. I'm not sure which.
Either way it is a great marketing ploy!

I'm just joking witcha Marcus Aurelius!


For the record...I have no problem with anyone doing whatever they want but this is not for me. I have a hard enough time getting the ladies to see me! LOL

I can see where the ladies would like it...afterall this is mostly an acting gig. The top cats try and pick and choose their parts and partners and even at that their are colossal flops from the top actors and actresses.

I have mixed feelings about this. On one hand, I definitely appreciate and welcome as much information about what a gentleman likes or dislikes doing on a date. It helps me determine whether or not we're going to be a good fit, and will help me make that date as much fun as possible for him if we do meet.

On the other hand, I'd be a bit concerned about my "performance" and being able to follow the script if he writes something too detailed. "I only like [x] when it's done [y] with a little bit of [z] and absolutely NO [q]." I mean, I know few people are into [q] (you freaks), but what if I forget?? Very detailed instructions are hard to remember, and I strongly prefer an organic, go with the flow, who knows what will happen next kind of experience. I once declined seeing someone because he had a down-to-the-minute plan for dates in his P411 profile. Even if the agenda were an exaggeration, it still seems to me that behind that is an attitude that all good dates will include those things, and if they aren't all included, he's going to be disappointed. I want to have fun and see where things take us; I don't want to worry about a to-do list.

Also (and this is just picking on ANONONE here ), what if I'm the lone, strange exception to what every woman will do when she gets that special oil massage? Will I feel like less of a woman, and he less skilled as a lover? That's a lot of pressure to put on a lady! And as we all know, anxiety and pleasure don't mix well...

Hmmmm. . .very good points, Carrie. I wish I was in Texas so we could find out.



Of course, just because it is in my sig line, does not mean it has to be read or followed. This is just an experiment and perhaps I should adjust it, but remember it is actually a link to a thread that created that context. I have a suspicion that a session where you take the lead and go strictly off inspiration will be as wonderful, if not more than anything scripted. If I decide to play with such a bio in a different format I will take that to heart.

What I will tell you is I do like having the description of the GSO2 out there for one main reason: If a lady reads about that and gets back to me before our session and tells me to leave the bottle of Grape Seed Oil at home, either because she thinks it is too messy, weird, or is uncomfortable with exploring her ability to experience that type of of orgasm, I am completely okay with it and would rather have that discussion out of the way than to spend 15 minutes of our time together discussing the clinical details and trying to decide if it is right for us. Hence, the reason for the detail.

Of course, my other thought is (not to hijack this thread into yet another discussion of the BBBJ) the detail I give for the type of oral sex I like can be read or ignored. I am betting you have exceptional skills, Carrie. My hope is consummate providers like yourself glance at it and let their intuition do the rest. Believe it or not, in my twenty plus years in the hobby I have had to teach a few providers how to go down on a man, and I am not just talking about my personal quirks. I am talking about the new provider that while she is pretty and has a great attitude, the majority of her knowledge has come from watching gonzo porn movies. In other words they are "diamonds in the rough" that have not refined their seduction skills as the average female reader of D&T has most likely already mastered. Remember I am a Midwest guy. I may treat myself to the HDH on occasion, but due to my location and the down cycle of the economy I am not always able to be with the paramour of my choice.

Out of curiosity, I have seen this P411 mentioned several times. Is that strictly a Texas thing is is it more widespread? Up here in Ohio, we pretty much have USINDYS, TER, TBD, EROS and the other usual suspects. To be honest I am so impressed with this site I am streamlining to this one and hoping that my region is one day as active as Texas, Arkansas, and Louisiana seem to be. I have never heard of P411, but it seems interesting that the gents are able to make a more detailed profile than other places. Is there a subscription cost? What are the other benefits?

--Anon

I strongly prefer an organic, go with the flow, who knows what will happen next kind of experience. Originally Posted by Carrie Hillcrest

Word.

Sometimes you might want to try something different -- like maybe levitation.

Believe it or not, in my twenty plus years in the hobby I have had to teach a few providers how to go down on a man, and I am not just talking about my personal quirks. I am talking about the new provider that while she is pretty and has a great attitude, the majority of her knowledge has come from watching gonzo porn movies.--Anon Originally Posted by ANONONE

Wow, that sounds like a deal too good to pass up. In addition to your fee, you get lessons.

I am curious. Has anyone else tried grape seed oil?

I have had to teach a few providers how to go down on a man Originally Posted by ANONONE

That kind of sounds like MFM.

That kind of sounds like MFM. Originally Posted by Ansley

ANONONE, You want me to hold her down while you apply the Grapeseed oil!

Oh you are sooo pushing it WTF.

I know few people are into [q] (you freaks), Originally Posted by Carrie Hillcrest

That's "Mister Freak" to you!

I want to have fun and see where things take us; I don't want to worry about a to-do list. Originally Posted by Carrie Hillcrest

Word! When I meet someone, I like the spur of the moment movements or interplay between and the woman. Either one of us might decide that doing something different that you hadn't planned on might be very erotic (and no Carrie, don't get your hopes up for [q] ).

Also, what if I'm the lone, strange exception to what every woman will do when she gets that special oil massage? Will I feel like less of a woman, and he less skilled as a lover? Originally Posted by Carrie Hillcrest

True if deviation from a format could incur those emotions.

Disclaimer: ANONONE's post was great. I love those elements when with someone, the eyes looking up or reaching ecstasy when it is passion and nothing else. I think that's what we live for, eh?

Wow, that sounds like a deal too good to pass up. In addition to your fee, you get lessons. Originally Posted by atlcomedy

I suppose you would sit there and just endure a mediocre blow job, or one with too much teeth? I do not have a problem being pedantic--especially since it is my money.

I would never follow a script, but it is nice to know if the gentleman prefers a drama or romantic comedy.

ANONONE, You want me to hold her down while you apply the Grapeseed oil! Originally Posted by WTF

Ansley already told me (back at the D) if I come anywhere near Georgia that I am to leave my bottle of grape seed oil at home.

That kind of sounds like MFM. Originally Posted by Ansley

Play nice!




We already know HDH gals are like this:

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