Stood up by Tori Capelli.....twice

She doesn't owe me anything. I was a good client and a friend. I simply want her to know her business is being handled (or shall we say mishandled) in this manner. I would like to say goodbye as friends do. I was prepared to pay the rate to get the time to do so. I have as you say"moved on" .

"Marathon flaking" to piss off established clients by any chick would be a unprofessional and juvenile way to cull the herd. Most ladies I've known just drop their sites, go UTR and stay in touch with only those they want to stay in touch with.

I've known Tori for a while and just don't think flaking-to-piss-off would be her MO in my opinion.

maybe her "GPS" was broken?

Then move on. Not sure why you think she owes you anything more than what you already got. Originally Posted by thathottnurse

Do you really want to live in a world where fresh eggs off the farm mean nothing?
He gave her those, that creates a bond.

I simply want her to know her business is being handled (or shall we say mishandled) in this manner . Originally Posted by diddleman

Yes that must be it. She is being kept in the dark by an evil assistant. Surely the poor girl isn't capable of texting or emailing even though she really misses you and thought of you as her personal friend.

Do you guys hear yourselves???

Guys like you are the reason why excellent providers sometimes have to disappear. You think the illusion is reality. You don't know where the line is and expect more than what is offered simply because you got great service. A beauty queen gives you the time of day and you suddenly forget that it's paid for. Stop it! She is your friend for the time you are together. That's all. If she wanted to be in contact with you or missed your company in any way, shape or form then you would know about it.

I suspect you all are very difficult to maintain boundaries with or getting through a date with you is nothing less than an act of pure hooker-valor. The fact that you can't move on and stop talking about it is proof.

Do you really want to live in a world where fresh eggs off the farm mean nothing?
He gave her those, that creates a bond. Originally Posted by DSK

I just want to live in a world where Katy Perry and Missy Elliot make beautiful music together all day long

"Marathon flaking" to piss off established clients by any chick would be a unprofessional and juvenile way to cull the herd. Most ladies I've known just drop their sites, go UTR and stay in touch with only those they want to stay in touch with.

I've known Tori for a while and just don't think flaking-to-piss-off would be her MO in my opinion. Originally Posted by Hercules

I think some guys can't handle the truth and rather than just tell them, "Hey, I would prefer it if you not contact me again", it's much more practical to ease them down gently and make yourself look like the "bad guy" (or girl, as it were). A few of these guys have attachment issues, obviously, so I can definitely see where she might have flaked on purpose. I mean, are you reading this?? Wouldn't you??

Well said by the Personal Juicer!!! Do not get mad, she is only the messenger lol

From what I understand Tori has let a lot of "friends" who expected to be grandfathered go!

If I can get $500 for providing a superior service who needs friends, right? LOL

For All who are wondering, she still has it!!!

Yes that must be it. She is being kept in the dark by an evil assistant. Surely the poor girl isn't capable of texting or emailing even though she really misses you and thought of you as her personal friends.

Do you guys hear yourselves???

Guys like you are the reason why excellent providers sometimes have to disappear. You think the illusion is reality. You don't know where the line is and expect more than what is offered simply because you got great service. A beauty queen gives you the time of day and you suddenly forget that it's paid for. Stop it! She is your friend for the time you are together. That's all. If she wanted to be in contact with you or missed your company in any way, shape or form then you would know about it.

I suspect you all are very difficult to maintain boundaries with or getting through a date with you is nothing less than an act of pure hooker-valor. The fact that you can't move on and stop talking about it is proof.



I just want to live in a world where Katy Perry and Missy Elliot make beautiful music together all day long Originally Posted by thathottnurse

FINALLY! Thanks nurse that's hot for stating the obvious, or should I say obviously what some CUSTOMERS apparently don't get. Match dot Com is another url. I swear I take a few years away from this shit and I can't believe what's happened around here. Read thathottnurse's excellent post next time you find yourself losing sight of what this shit is all about.

That Hot Nurse is both beautiful and smart. Well said beautiful Ms. Hot Nurse. Ms. Capelli falls into a similar category for being both beautiful and smart by handling a bunch of titty babies without having to talk to them or post here......meanwhile she continues to stay busy with her own life goals and hobby aspirations. Well done beautiful Ms. Capelli.

We are lucky to have so many beautiful and intelligent beauties here in DFW who on occasion will spend time with insecure sexually needy nieve fucktards who have delusions of initiating a friendship (C'mon, the beautiful lady posted the ad or showcase.....not you titty baby fucktards).

There is reality in this fantasy we call the hobby. It is important to keep a grip on it.

correction:The Hot Personal Juicer!!!

THN and mojojo hit the nail on the head. THN put it in a execellent way. It is an eye opener for people getting attached to their providers and won't let go , be it me or any other hobbyists. They all have a personal life outside of the business and that can keep them extremely busy at tines. Patience with any provider if you really want to see will pay off in the long run.

Yes that must be it. She is being kept in the dark by an evil assistant. Surely the poor girl isn't capable of texting or emailing even though she really misses you and thought of you as her personal friend.

Do you guys hear yourselves???

Guys like you are the reason why excellent providers sometimes have to disappear. You think the illusion is reality. You don't know where the line is and expect more than what is offered simply because you got great service. A beauty queen gives you the time of day and you suddenly forget that it's paid for. Stop it! She is your friend for the time you are together. That's all. If she wanted to be in contact with you or missed your company in any way, shape or form then you would know about it.

I suspect you all are very difficult to maintain boundaries with or getting through a date with you is nothing less than an act of pure hooker-valor. The fact that you can't move on and stop talking about it is proof.



I just want to live in a world where Katy Perry and Missy Elliot make beautiful music together all day long



I think some guys can't handle the truth and rather than just tell them, "Hey, I would prefer it if you not contact me again", it's much more practical to ease them down gently and make yourself look like the "bad guy" (or girl, as it were). A few of these guys have attachment issues, obviously, so I can definitely see where she might have flaked on purpose. I mean, are you reading this?? Wouldn't you?? Originally Posted by thathottnurse

I think there are times WE all flake for the same reasons! There are client/provider relationships that can really click. The chemistry and friendship is real.....it's rare, but happens. For the most part, we are paid to provide off the chart IOP...some are better than others from what I hear. It's all a game. Some of you may not can afford to play emotionally nor financially. Rather than be butt hurt over her doing better and moving on, try being happy you were able to spend some time with her.

Btw, THN you have a big kiss coming from me. I love it when you call folks out!

I think there are times WE all flake for the same reasons! There are client/provider relationships that can really click. The chemistry and friendship is real.....it's rare, but happens. For the most part, we are paid to provide off the chart IOP...some are better than others from what I hear. It's all a game. Some of you may not can afford to play emotionally nor financially. Rather than be butt hurt over her doing better and moving on, try being happy you were able to spend some time with her.

Btw, THN you have a big kiss coming from me. I love it when you call folks out! Originally Posted by Kendall4U

Put that kiss where it counts, sexy whore!

Thanks for the kind words but I think I'm just stating the obvious here. Luckily, I have no life or goals so I can continue to WK for Miss Universe all day if need be. I'm here for you Tori! Remember me in your hooker-will! I know you're reading this! Let's be friends, girl!!! I feel a connection!

She doesn't owe me anything. I was a good client and a friend. I simply want her to know her business is being handled (or shall we say mishandled) in this manner. I would like to say goodbye as friends do. I was prepared to pay the rate to get the time to do so. I have as you say"moved on" . Originally Posted by diddleman

Not to add salt to the wound, but no you weren't friends. When an escort doesn't answer your calls or just says sorry I cant see you, with no attempt to reschedule. You were a client.
While a goodbye may be important to you that doesn't mean we share the sentiment. If we are good gfe providers we create an illusion of passion, and friendship. It's just good business. Everyone is "prepared" to pay the rate to book us. That again, makes you a client. This is a job. Not friendfinder.

Nailed it.

At one time or another, there are those of us that have to learn the "hard way". I did many moons ago. You learn....and you move on. Wiser, too, hopefully.....unless you're the kind that requires that proverbial brick wall to fall on ya.

Not to add salt to the wound, but no you weren't friends. When an escort doesn't answer your calls or just says sorry I cant see you, with no attempt to reschedule. You were a client.
While a goodbye may be important to you that doesn't mean we share the sentiment. If we are good gfe providers we create an illusion of passion, and friendship. It's just good business. Everyone is "prepared" to pay the rate to book us. That again, makes you a client. This is a job. Not friendfinder. Originally Posted by Roxane

In spite of the train wreck that ensued, the OP did a decent job of stating the facts without speculation or whining. Nice job as opposed to the usual lame-assed whining associated with NCNS.