Not to interject so seriously here, but I personally think it is because a lot of "normal" aka "civvy" women can just be really weird and shamed over sex.Jesus.
Unfortunately, bc of the society we live in. Sex is constantly in the media yet when it comes down to real life, a lot of women feel ashamed of their own bodies, sexuality and sexual desires. Like it is wrong to want to "fuck like slut" etc etc.
Like, I was reading this study the other day that said something like 15% of the women who had participated in the study still had never experienced an orgasm through sex at the age of 40. Jesus, how sad!
And I've dated a few chicas (in civvy life, not the hobby) that were perfectly happy to pleasure me until the cows came home, but would never want me to go anywhere near their coochies.
Women who are providers obviously do not have these hang ups about sex; we are more liberated in that way and can therefore enjoy and give sexual pleasure more freely. Not saying that there are NO civvy women who aren't like this; but it does seem to be a conundrum. Do all provider ladies inevitably end up becoming providers because of our non-issues over sex? Maybe. Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston
Not to interject so seriously here, but I personally think it is because a lot of "normal" aka "civvy" women can just be really weird and shamed over sex.Thanks Victoria. I think you pretty much captured the conundrum! My post is posing a serious question, so I appreciate your answer.
Unfortunately, bc of the society we live in. Sex is constantly in the media yet when it comes down to real life, a lot of women feel ashamed of their own bodies, sexuality and sexual desires. Like it is wrong to want to "fuck like slut" etc etc.
Like, I was reading this study the other day that said something like 15% of the women who had participated in the study still had never experienced an orgasm through sex at the age of 40. Jesus, how sad!
And I've dated a few chicas (in civvy life, not the hobby) that were perfectly happy to pleasure me until the cows came home, but would never want me to go anywhere near their coochies.
Women who are providers obviously do not have these hang ups about sex; we are more liberated in that way and can therefore enjoy and give sexual pleasure more freely. Not saying that there are NO civvy women who aren't like this; but it does seem to be a conundrum. Do all provider ladies inevitably end up becoming providers because of our non-issues over sex? Maybe. Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston
I think providers fill a role that is missing in today's society. When I was a kid women were supposed to make the man and home a happy place and the man supported the family. Originally Posted by bigbadbill969It all went downhill when we let them vote.... stupid gender equality. How was burning a bra a bad thing? Just hose down her shirt. Men of that era were dumb! Going to go inside my bomb shelter now. Mkay, bye.
Jesus.You're new here honey, so I am only going to say this once.
Joseph.
Mary.
And God,
How many fucking soapboxs are you standing on? Originally Posted by LuckOfTheOrient
Thanks Victoria. I think you pretty much captured the conundrum! My post is posing a serious question, so I appreciate your answer. Originally Posted by ktrouble22
VoH, ignore those kind of humans. They just want attention, even negative attention. They are lonely sad creatures! Just ignore.
Be happy Originally Posted by Mythos
But now I'm single again later in life, it's proving very hard to find "the one" - the one you've got a good social affinity with, who's attractive AND has a high libido AND free of inhibitions. It's like looking for fucking unicorn.... Originally Posted by ktrouble22Hehehe, why do you think I am also single and providing once again? Trying to find "Mr Right" just turned out to be oh so wrong.