IT SEEMS to Be 9x out of 10 kindness is weakness in this world

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Just have to say that being kind as come back to bite me in the ass a few times... but I continue to be kind even if it is a weakness. Its learning that fine line between being stupid and being kind. Originally Posted by KenMonk
stupid[ stoo-pid, styoo‐ ]
adjective
1.*lacking ordinary quickness and keenness of mind; dull.
2.*characterized by or proceeding from mental dullness; foolish; senseless: a stupid question.
3.*tediously dull, especially due to lack of meaning or sense; inane; pointless: a stupid party.

kind[ kahynd ]
adjective -er, -est.
1.*of a good or benevolent nature or disposition, as a person: a kind and loving person.
2.*having, showing, or proceeding from benevolence: kind words.
3.*indulgent, considerate, or helpful; humane (often followed by to): to be kind to animals.

"Stupid" and "Kind" would seem to have very little correlation, as do "kindness" and "weakness". Giving someone else your money is either:

altruism[ al-troo-iz-uh m ]
noun
1.*the principle or practice of unselfish concern for or devotion to the welfare of others (egoism).
2.*behavior by an animal that may be to its disadvantage but that benefits others of its kind, as a warning cry that reveals the location of the caller to a predator.

or

charity[ char-i-tee ]
noun pl. -ties.
1.*generous actions or donations to aid the poor, ill, or helpless: to devote one's life to charity.
2.*something given to a person or persons in need; alms: She asked for work, not charity.
3.*a charitable act or work.

Unless, of course, it wasn't a gift but rather an expected quid pro quo, in which case it wasn't an act of kindness either.
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I was drinking and in a philosophical mood.