Why is it so hard for providers to get back to you?

tori I emailed you this morning . hope to hear from ya soon

I'm not even going to make excuses, i was terrible at getting back to everyone this trip. i even took my number out of my bp ad and have tons of calls, voicemails, and emails that i haven't called back or even opened yet. i prefer to stay low volume but holy shit this trip was bananas everyone had lastminute unexpected free time to get away from work or home because of the wives shopping. I will not call back or text back unless they say it's safe to if i don't get to the call more than an hour after because i don't know if it's safe aka the wife could be back.
I had my exact times and dates in it so they can read it and see I'm gone now for a month or 2 and they are still calling and emailing.I don't get that.8 emails today from guys asking my availability today in Buffalo even though it clearly states I'm not there anymore.
I truly appreciate the interest and I'm grateful but stuff like that makes it harder for us to wade through everything and keep it timely.
The 2 things i was able to stay on top of were my pms and return/regular texts and calls. I had no time to screen newbies. I only saw one new person this trip and that was because he emailed me with all of his ids and screen names so screening took a total of 2 minutes and our date was set up within 3 emails. That is one bad ass dude!
Years ago i ran an ad "if you can save 20 minutes of my time you get $20 off of the date. If we can have your screening, date, and time set up within 2 emails/texts/pms and 2 calls you are my hero and you deserve a special!"

If 20 minutes of time is $20 off, why doesn't the hour cost $60?

If 20 minutes of time is $20 off, why doesn't the hour cost $60? Originally Posted by JohnnyCap

20 minutes of screening/booking time, not to be confused with actual meeting time.

A couple flirty emails or texts.... confirmation before a date.... etc, all lend to the experience if done right. (And I must say, I thought you did it right!) Originally Posted by gaijin1969

Yes if they all were as good as you Tori we wouldn't even be talking about this. Most all of the VP'S here are good too. Originally Posted by Highwayman64

Thanks guys!!! Agreed most of the vp's have great tcb I've even witnessed when contacting other vps for references

tori I emailed you this morning . hope to hear from ya soon Originally Posted by CLAMCHOWDER2000

Responded lol. Hope to see you soon!!!

Years ago i ran an ad "if you can save 20 minutes of my time you get $20 off of the date. If we can have your screening, date, and time set up within 2 emails/texts/pms and 2 calls you are my hero and you deserve a special!" Originally Posted by Lexxxy

That's awesome! A lot of it is wasted time! When on first contact, they provide no info and want to see you in an hour. It's frustrating sifting through the bs to get to the good stuff lol

20 minutes of screening/booking time, not to be confused with actual meeting time. Originally Posted by jackfengshui

Exactly, thank you.

The OP should either download porn, or research his topics. The Search tab is your friend. Contrary to popular belief, the ladies do not sit around waiting for their phones to ring. My guess would be the OP did not read how the lady in question prefers to be contacted. Do your research and do not get your taint twisted due to a lady not responding in what you may feel is the appropriate timeframe.

20 minutes of screening/booking time, not to be confused with actual meeting time. Originally Posted by jackfengshui

Exactly, thank you. Originally Posted by Lexxxy

No confusion here, but that more people don't ask themselves this.

Ugh. For a profession that relies on communication, why is it so hard? I can understand a few hours or so as people are busy, but whole day/days?

There's a well-reviewed provider here (won't name names) and it's been days. A week now I think. I'm not messaging them constantly, once 2x a day trying to get something that day as I was available that day, then after a few days go by.
For some others, I get a reply, then I reply back with a yeah I'm up for that... Then nothing. What gives?

It makes scheduling anything extremely difficult. Originally Posted by Mike_Rach

You know what your problem is Mike? You're a nervous guy. You gotta learn to relax. Just move on to plan B. When you got that all we gotta do is teach you how to dress.

The OP should either download porn, or research his topics. The Search tab is your friend. Contrary to popular belief, the ladies do not sit around waiting for their phones to ring. My guess would be the OP did not read how the lady in question prefers to be contacted. Do your research and do not get your taint twisted due to a lady not responding in what you may feel is the appropriate timeframe. Originally Posted by pyramider

Along with that, the op should make what he finds a problem a fun part of the game. As I have.
Or use the NEXT theory. That Adding even more homework he may have not done in the first place.

If a lady doesn't get back to you try someone else. There's plenty of fine gals around. Don't get worked up over it and never take it personal.

No confusion here, but that more people don't ask themselves this. Originally Posted by JohnnyCap

Maybe you have the wrong hobby if money is an issue. I hear there are $60 girls on bp with managers that will even deliver the girl to your house and politely wait outside like it's pizza delivery.

I'm not even going to make excuses, i was terrible at getting back to everyone this trip. i even took my number out of my bp ad and have tons of calls, voicemails, and emails that i haven't called back or even opened yet. i prefer to stay low volume but holy shit this trip was bananas everyone had lastminute unexpected free time to get away from work or home because of the wives shopping. I will not call back or text back unless they say it's safe to if i don't get to the call more than an hour after because i don't know if it's safe aka the wife could be back.
I had my exact times and dates in it so they can read it and see I'm gone now for a month or 2 and they are still calling and emailing.I don't get that.8 emails today from guys asking my availability today in Buffalo even though it clearly states I'm not there anymore.
I truly appreciate the interest and I'm grateful but stuff like that makes it harder for us to wade through everything and keep it timely.
The 2 things i was able to stay on top of were my pms and return/regular texts and calls. I had no time to screen newbies. I only saw one new person this trip and that was because he emailed me with all of his ids and screen names so screening took a total of 2 minutes and our date was set up within 3 emails. That is one bad ass dude!
Years ago i ran an ad "if you can save 20 minutes of my time you get $20 off of the date. If we can have your screening, date, and time set up within 2 emails/texts/pms and 2 calls you are my hero and you deserve a special!" Originally Posted by Lexxxy

If you is truly this busy, sought after, and in demand... Wow!! Seems folks be trippin

No need to try and be funny because it isn't at all, just kind of sad I feel bad for you, better luck next time homie.
Like other girls have stated this holiday is busy. Everyone is treating themselves this holiday season which is awesome.

Sent this young lady a PM yesterday. Seeing as we've yet to meet, this was to make a connection and get screened so we could set something up in the near future. Not only did Tori get back to me this AM, she had already PM'ed a couple of ladies for referrals and was waiting to hear back from them. THAT is 5 star TCB. Well done Tori!!!

I can't speak for all but for myself I will say this - I try to maintain good communication as I know it's important, but also I'm just a nice person and don't really want to blow anyone off unless they're a jerk. But even if I'm unable at the gentleman's requested day/time I still try to get back to them. Originally Posted by ToriStarr