If you don't mind me asking is there a specific place you get your lube from? As well as a size recommendation for butt plugs for beginners?
Originally Posted by Lena Monet
Get it at
http://www.spunklube.com/ I haven't seen it in adult stores on this side of the country though. It might be in some of those mega XXX stores off the side of the highway. It's expensive but I love it. I use Pure Silicone which has 4 silicones in it, never dries, never gets sticky. (No, I'm not paid to advertise this, the guy doesn't even talk to me on Twitter...)
I went with a small butt plug but really the size is more of a personal comfort thing. The vibrating one I got is 1.25" wide and 3.5" long. The glass one is 2.5" long (I should've got a longer one though because it doesn't stay in). I think most anal plugs are about 1-1.5 inches wide and vary in length. I'm not an expert though so don't quote me on it
Oh, they also have anal training kits with 3-4 different size plugs. Start at the smallest and work your way up