makes a trait that draws you

I look for just an attractive woman. She doesn't have to be a model. Thru her ad I like a bit of intelligence to show up. A nice review background. I can't stand ghetto language in an ad. Even if that's how you talk in everyday life clean it up a little when you place an ad.

Fairly simple for me. Does she offer the services I am looking for. Do I find her reasonably attractive. Can I afford her time. If she posts here or on a board, do I like personality. If all these line up at the time I'm looking for someone then I'll contact them.

I look initially at the photo quality. Self portrait,cell phone pics just come off as cheesy to me. Invest in some decent pics if you are advertising yourself. Secondly I look at how the ad is worded...not that Im a spelling genius but misspelled words intentional or not is indicative of either laziness (spell check is standard on most browsers these days)or lack of education.The general gist of the ad is important. Reviews are a definite plus!

First of all and WITH ALL APOLOGIES TO LONDON RAYNE(I make a huge exception for her)........if the ad has the woman sticking her butt out in my face in the photos I pass on it. Then if Greek is offered I for sure mark her out. I look for a petite woman with education and maturity and someone that I feel with enjoy my company.

I look initially at the photo quality. Self portrait,cell phone pics just come off as cheesy to me. Invest in some decent pics if you are advertising yourself. Secondly I look at how the ad is worded...not that Im a spelling genius but misspelled words intentional or not is indicative of either laziness (spell check is standard on most browsers these days)or lack of education.The general gist of the ad is important. Reviews are a definite plus! Originally Posted by catadrioptic

I pefer the cell pics to be better due to the fact it shows who a person really is and are updated much more often. With 'professional' photos you are going to see a photo after the proper lighting, poseing, props, airbrushing...and they MIGHT be within a year of being taken.

what are your reasons to prefering the professionaly done pics?

First of all and WITH ALL APOLOGIES TO LONDON RAYNE(I make a huge exception for her)........if the ad has the woman sticking her butt out in my face in the photos I pass on it. Then if Greek is offered I for sure mark her out. I look for a petite woman with education and maturity and someone that I feel with enjoy my company. Originally Posted by catnipdipper

Why if she offers greek you are not interested?

I actually like cell pics as well cause it gives an element of the real her. Would you be more turned on if a provider texted you a pic taken by a photographer or one she snapped of herself. I'd prefer the latter. Or ladder however you spell it lol.

First of all and WITH ALL APOLOGIES TO LONDON RAYNE(I make a huge exception for her)........if the ad has the woman sticking her butt out in my face in the photos I pass on it. Then if Greek is offered I for sure mark her out. I look for a petite woman with education and maturity and someone that I feel with enjoy my company. Originally Posted by catnipdipper

LMAO thanks! I offer greek but only to guys who are less than average size, and generally not very often...i.e. my a hole is not worn out from too much abuse. I also charge quite a lot for that service for that very reason, so every guy is not lining up for that one service knowing it's always available.

Agree with the other guy on presentation. It's not what you do but how you do it. If you can't properly market yourself, you are only going to attract other people who don't much care either. It says a lot about you as a professional all the way around. Nothing wrong with putting your best foot forward in ANY business you partake in....also correlates to how detailed you might be in other areas including promptness, hygiene, and how you keep your overall surroundings. I mean if everything about you is sloppy and sub par, what makes a guy want to think that will change when he gets there?

Eccie Addict spoke quite well for me, although I'd add that I like a sense that the lady will carry on an interesting conversation. That does not mean that you need a graduate degree in (pick your field.) It does mean that you listen well and are willing to share ideas, opinions and experiences. {Always, bearing in mind bounds of privacy on both our parts.} Also, a reputation for reasonable TCB skills is a huge help. Personally, no matter what the level of visual appeal a lady may have, I won't invest vast amounts of time in trying to track her down to set up a session.

I am devastated to learn of your Greek offerings limited tho they may be. Alas.

Greek for me just fits into an area of my mind that says; "it just doesn't make any sense to me." Ergo because my rational thinking dominates I can't fathom why anyone else would think it is ok. Once a year during my physical reaffirms my feelings. lol

I personally also think it is demeaning to the provider and cedes dominance to the male and I want someone who is my equal or better.

Agree with the other guy on presentation. It's not what you do but how you do it. If you can't properly market yourself, you are only going to attract other people who don't much care either. It says a lot about you as a professional all the way around. Nothing wrong with putting your best foot forward in ANY business you partake in....also correlates to how detailed you might be in other areas including promptness, hygiene, and how you keep your overall surroundings. I mean if everything about you is sloppy and sub par, what makes a guy want to think that will change when he gets there? Originally Posted by London Rayne

I agree totally. I myself do not do the revolving door at Macy's. It is all about presentation. Everyone likes Christmas.... so unwrapping the package is part of the fun.

Oh my! Your mind has been warped baby! If she likes it how can it be demeaning? I did have a guy refuse to let me kneel for a bj suggesting it made me beneath him...culture thing.

You don't have to partake in it, but many ladies like it. I know I do, but moreso with a real BF since I do find it is more invasive, and must be done by someone who is delicate with the female form.

I love greek, and everyone here should know how I just love to get down on my knees for a good facial! Your thinking is off I think....for it is the lady who ALWAYS dominates in the bed room.

Ok Ok I admit some of my thinking is possibly warped but not in this area for ME. A woman on her knees in front of me is a Gift and I always accept. I thought that her being on her knees was only because she was more comfortable.lol

The gist of the thread was about what pleased a person or drew their interest. I just expressed MY opinion and would never ever foist my views on anyone else.

If I knew I would never patronize a tea bagger or a republican provider or anyone that drove a Hyundai, Daewoo, or Kia either.

Damn you!! I am a Republican who loves tea bagging lmao!! I do drive a Mercedes though...is that better? LOL!

London I am making every possible effort to grant you access. lol

Greek Republican would require incredible bipartisanship on our part and of course I would need to know if the Mercedes is AMG? That might do it.