Client/ASP age disparity

I'm early 50's and the youngest woman I've been with (at this age is 20). This was in the civvie realm. Youngest provider was 24, and wasn't that great, but that was more about personality than age. I've talked to a number of (civvie) gals in their 20s who have been with older guys and really like it because there's an experience factor in the bedroom that they've never experienced with guys their own age. Such an awareness is gratifying to an older guy.

I think it's pretty interesting this conversation is taking place on a hooker board. Take the average person on the street, and they will tell you that having sex with a hooker is disgusting and low life. I don't know how many conversations that I've had to bite my tongue as a part of, because I did not want to blow my cover.

Norms of ages that should be together are a lot broader than are being discussed here. Personal preference is another thing. I respect that. And I certainly respect the legal age of consent thing.

The only comment on age I've received was "Wow, you look so young", which I found hilarious as the lady is just a few months younger than I am (I'm in my 30's and was in my 30's at the time). It became obvious that her normal clientele carried a few more years.

"The hobby" as such exists to sate an appetite which varies as widely as the culinary palate, hence the talk of "menu options". There will always exist the desire by some for a 70-something desiring a 20-something. It heightens the importance of providers' personal limitations (re: Lady Y, at 18 being disgusted by 30-somethings and now finding young 30-somethings gross).

I don't find 30 and younger gross, it is just uncomfortable for me cause it reminds me of my son. Its a mother thing..

Being a younger guy, especially for this hobby, I end up running the gamut of ages, from those in my age range to those who are old enough to be my parent. And there's good and bad in both age groups. It's actually difficult sometimes to meet with some providers because of my age. There are some who are upfront about it who I won't waste either of our time in contacting, but there are others who aren't whom I have either met and been told to leave (probably didn't do the best screening) or who have screened and shut off contact. But growing up in the age of internet porn made me more than fine with much older and younger. Maybe as I get older things will change.

I don't find 30 and younger gross, it is just uncomfortable for me cause it reminds me of my son. Its a mother thing.. Originally Posted by Ms.Lady Y

I'm 53 Y, but I'd let you discipline me any time!...just sayin'

I'm 53 Y, but I'd let you discipline me any time!...just sayin' Originally Posted by ZyklonZomB

Come on over and drop

I guess it's a matter of personal taste. I personally don't care for cowgirl position but it's the first position most providers go for. I do find the older I get the older the provider I prefer and I guess that's natural. There are guys out there that no longer can get with a young girl (18 and up)and it's their fantasy. A provider can choose to see or not see anyone at anytime yet the 18-21 providers see older men every day. To say it wrong or disgusting is just in my opinion trying to set your expectations and personal morals on someone else. If it's not for you don't do it. If they are of legal age and it's your thing who am I to say don't. This is supposed to be a hobby for people that think it's ok for an arrangement to be made. They have had older younger relationships in most cultures but in the ole USA we remain repressed. I think it's been three years since I saw a provider under 25.

Playing around with someone my age or younger in personal life or the hobby I dunno about gross but undesirable. I prefer older than me .... so .... late 20's and older (much older).

I was at Hamburg stripclub a few years ago. I was talking and fondling a nice young lady. That I would have banged if I had the chance. The next time I went back I asked where this girl was. They said she was using fake ID that she was only 16. OH SHIT. She had also danced at the playhouse.