Feel free to look thru my posting history, I never call anyone out or generate drama. If I had wanted to be personal I'd have flamed her in the mens lounge or with all the guys I trade PM's with.I'm sorry but please don't attempt to tell me how I feel or what my motivations are. My posts are written in simple self explanatory English. This was not a NCNS and to post something to that effect would have been unfair and misleading. My decision to post here is simple, it's an ongoing community topic that applies to both sides.
This is a genuine attempt to educate someone who seems to need it. If I'd have posted it generically then someone would be asking why not post specifics. I was taught early on you never say anything behind someone's back you won't say to their face.[/QUOTE]
Simply posting a NSNC in coed is perfect. I'm not siding with her in anyway but calling her out in dramatic fashion in an open forum in order to get her to talk to you is exactly what you just did.
This isn't a classroom and I doubt in-front-of-class humiliation tactics will teach anything. You say it's business but clearly come across as if butt hurt.
Saying something to her face means e-mail, text, pms, vm's etc.. to her directly.
The only thing that will actually educate her is a shortage of clients.
Until that happens I doubt she really gives a shit what any monger thinks.
If providers who NSNC actually respected monger's opinions they wouldn't NSNC to begin with. IJS
I apologize if this comes across across as if I'm trying to debate as I'm really not.
You have every right to be annoyed by poor TCB.
It's just an opinion. Originally Posted by TxToast
The OP is simple, direct and to the point....clean up your TCB.