The only real trouble is going to happen if you use your fake id for banking or the government.
a ton of sites will use a 3rd party payment processor. Use fake id to sign up which doesn't require id anyway. And a real one for money.
Or privacy.com They get your real id because they deal with banks. I can use their card for a website and put any address, any name because they will accept anything from a website. You get charged through your real bank and even the transaction can have a fake name. Actually pretty cool for security and privacy.
No physical card, but the online stuff works well.
The only "risk" on dating apps is they might ban you. Then move on to the next one.
"genuine connections" lol - do you know what site you're on.