Would it be wiser to wait until i can go abroad rather then try to hobby domestically?

Rosie Palm -- in otherwords, jerk off and watch porn. The hobby is not for you.

Rosie Palm -- in otherwords, jerk off and watch porn. The hobby is not for you. Originally Posted by CryptKicker

A part of me wants to get mad at you...but the other part is honestly thinking with all the money i would potentially be spending anyway, i'd probably have an easier time trying my luck on tinder until I get the chance to go abroad.

Re the Sugar Daddy scene: If it works for you, well then "Good-For-You".

I find the SD/SB concept intriguing, but it seems like a lot of work to maintain and fraught with drama. There is also a perception on my part that it is predatory. When I schedule with an Indy Provider, I know that the outcome is a sure thing. The Provider/Hobbyist transaction is mutually agreed upon. I am attracted by the flexibility, wide choice and the lack of strings.

If you do your research on the lady then there’s nothing to worry about, make sure she is reputable.. has a great online presence.. preferably if she’s been around a long time. And make sure she has online reviews. Then go have a blast with her! You can find girls locally more convenient than going all the way to other countries. Plus I feel like it’s safer.

I say old boy, If I were to live in Chicago, I would go to Canada on a regular basis. Prostitution is legal there. Go for it!
And by-the-bye, Get a dictionary, and look up the definition of 'THEN' vs. 'THAN'. Both words have different pronunciations and meaning, and not interchangable.
Good Day To You Sir

Or - go to Mexico, Fly to San Diego or El Paso, shuttle or walk across border. AND NEVER COME BACK. THE CARTELS RUN ALL OF THE "LADIES" AND ROUTINELY KIDNAP STUPID GRINGOS FOR RANSOM.

Or - Las Vegas, CONTRARY TO POPULAR BELIEF, THE HOBBY IS NOT LEGAL IN CLARK COUNTY AND DURING AN ELECTION SEASON, EVERYTHING IS UP FOR GRABS.

Canada is close enough to Chicago, but not sure what the actual legal status is. THE HOBBY IS LEGAL THERE, BUT NO THIRD PARTIES CAN ADVERTISE FOR THE LADY. I GO THERE ALL THE TIME. CATCH A NONSTOP FROM MIDWAY TO MANCHESTER, NH, RENT A CAR THERE AND GAS UP IN ST. ALBANS, VT. ABOUT A 4 HOUR DRIVE THROUGH THE MOUNTAINS. THE CANADIAN DOLLAR HAS BEEN RUNNING $0.74 - $0.73 TO THE USD FOR SOME TIME, WHICH EQUATES TO A 26% TO 27% DISCOUNT OVER THE LISTED PRICE.
RESOURCES: MERB.CC (YOU HAVE TO JOIN), WHAT EVERY ESCORT REVIEW BOARD SHOULD LOOK LIKE. INDYCOMPANION.COM, A DIRECTORY ESTABLISHED AND RUN BY AN INDY.
SPENT 4 DAYS THERE THE THIRD WEEK IN JUNE IN A 5 STAR HOTEL, CAPPED BY THREE HOUR OUTCALL TO MY HOTEL BY A HIGH END INDY LADY.
ONCE YOU GET THERE GO TO A CURRENCY EXCHANGE INSIDE A WELL TRAFFICKED MALL AND EXCHANGE USD FOR CAD.
HEALTH SERVICES ARE FREE FOR EVERYBODY IN CANADA, INCLUDING SEX WORKERS AND TOURISTS.
IF YOU LIKE LADIES THAT FLY IN FROM PARIS, YOU'LL LOVE MONTREAL. I DO! I COMPLETED MY "CHECKLIST" ON MY LAST TRIP AND I HAVE VERY EXOTIC TASTES!
NO PARANOIA AND FEWER LADIES WITH THE TYPICAL HEALTH AND MENTAL "ISSUES" THAT ARE THE NORM IN THE US, NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU PAY.

Good Luck

So, Canada sounds like a GO then. They speak English drive on the right (correct)side of the road,and the money isn't too different.

And the Hobby is legal.

I hear that the strip clubs can be interesting as well.

into that sort of thing. There's a whole thread on merb.cc about strip clubs. I've found the ones on island (the locals refer to downtown Montreal as an island, although it's really a peninsula) to be very expensive as far as cover, drinks, and private dances. You can easily spend in an hour the same amount you could have a high-end indy or agency lady 1:1 for the same hour.


The favorable currency exchange rate makes it a bargain - you can stay in the best hotels, eat at great restaurants and with all of the gratuity, VAT, etc. added, it's about the same as Chicago or St. Louis. Certainly not as expensive as LA, Las Vegas, or NYC. Hust don't fly directly into Laval or rent a car there. You might as well buy the plane and the car.

So, Canada sounds like a GO then. They speak English drive on the right (correct)side of the road,and the money isn't too different.

And the Hobby is legal.

I hear that the strip clubs can be interesting as well. Originally Posted by ICU 812

You have a lot of options in the Chicago area.

Yes, there are risks but there are also risks with traveling in general and the overseas sex trade in particular. Adult prostitution is legal in many countries but people have still gotten hurt or jammed up in other ways while on vacation.

In Chicago you have AMPS, escort agencies, and some really hot proven independent escorts as well.

Just do your research on multiple sites besides just this one and have a good time. If you're looking for more than just a massage and full service ending, I'd suggest you consider a quality agency or a known well reviewed independent escort.

America the best but just study and don't get cops get a broker in chick.

You have a lot of options in the Chicago area.

Yes, there are risks but there are also risks with traveling in general and the overseas sex trade in particular. Adult prostitution is legal in many countries but people have still gotten hurt or jammed up in other ways while on vacation.

In Chicago you have AMPS, escort agencies, and some really hot proven independent escorts as well.

Just do your research on multiple sites besides just this one and have a good time. If you're looking for more than just a massage and full service ending, I'd suggest you consider a quality agency or a known well reviewed independent escort. Originally Posted by Jannisary

Yeah I actually found a quote that kinda helped me finally work up the nerve.

"It RARELY happens. In our state, I think there have been three AMPs raided in the past 10 years or so.

Here's the reality. Police departments know what's going on (generally speaking). But these are petty crimes in which there is no real victim. They have better things to do.

Occasionally a local busybody or a local city councilman will put pressure on the cops to close the places down and they'll make a token arrest or two.

Every once in a while, a customer will create a scene (usually drunk or something) and will have to be hauled away. But, for the most part, cops are willing to let people alone, as long as you don't do something stupid."

Montreal has amazing options. Make a mini vacation out of it.