Worry about your own session
Originally Posted by FindumFuccemFleem
^^^^^This right here.
Whining or complaining or even inquiring, to me, shows a lack of confidence in yourself. That can be a turn off to a lot of providers.
I like to see providers who have a mature mentality and like what they do. The ones who have a RW job are the best. They're usually doing this as much for the NSA sex as they are for the money. I've had some civie flings with married women who considered providing because they liked the excitement of it. This just in...Women like sex too and some of them can be down right kinky minded.
I do research about what's on a provider's menu and I've rarely gotten less. I usually take charge of a session with some sexy confidence without being a jerk and I damn sure don't haggle. I treat her like I want her to have as much fun as I plan on having. I usually leave a session feeling like it went well for both of us.
There are exceptions when I want it to totally be about me but I'll see the provider who is best suited to me for that particular type of session.
I think there is some chest beating that happens but more often, and to the point of the OP,
your mileage will always vary to an extent. I just read a recent review where the guy was disappointed that there was no DFK. I saw that provider just recently and the whole session was DFK for me. Maybe she liked the way I kiss and didn't like the way he kissed. Maybe he had bad breath. Maybe he was being too aggressive (I know she doesn't like that) or said something that turned her off from being that intimate with him. Maybe he ___________fill in the blank. I've met girls in RL that I might fuck because they have a banging body or great attitude but I wouldn't kiss them because their teeth were jacked up. I think most of us can relate. These girls aren't robots, at least not the ones I see. At least treat her like you want her to enjoy it as much as you do and I think you get more mileage.