Newbie friendly list?

"Back in the day" you didn't have to worry about an automatic felony conviction. Sesta & Fosta fucked the whole scene up. Things you rarely had to worry about back in the day are riskier than ever.

Reviews are often exaggerated. They are one sided and only portray your side of things. They tell nothing about your hygiene, etiquette and how you behaved in a session. I know personally if I screened solely off of posts and reviews I would turn down a lot more guys. I prefer to talk to a lady and see if they perhaps are really a nice guy and shouldn't be judged solely on their posts. Screening is "doing" our research.

The only time we care about your wallet is when it is time to pay for the session you booked. Beyond that I don't care what your financials are. How the hell would any provider know how much money you have unless you flaunt your wealth. We do however know who the "hagglers" are. Ladies will always continue to screen in someway..that's atleast true for those who don't want to end up dead or locked up.

As it's always been said don't contact a lady whose process you aren't comfortable will. Move on and quit beating a dead horse. Originally Posted by Britttany_love

Yes to ALL of this. But I do have to say personally I avoid those I see who have thousands of posts and are constantly degrading the ladies and our profession. Especially when some think just because they're popular, they can blackmail you with talking crap on the board because of their status to get what they want when they're in a session with a lady. Those men are more trouble than they're worth.

Yes to ALL of this. But I do have to say personally I avoid those I see who have thousands of posts and are constantly degrading the ladies and our profession. Especially when some think just because they're popular, they can blackmail you with talking crap on the board because of their status to get what they want when they're in a session with a lady. Those men are more trouble than they're worth. Originally Posted by SexySammy

Exactly those guys are an automatic no go!

My point was that many providers put guys who only do alternative screening--ID verification rather than references--in the same category as guys who are literally new to this. Also if we haven't seen any providers in a few years. And it strikes me as condescending. I realize it's my own social tic, but I'd rather not share with others who I've been with before. And it's also why I don't do reviews, even though some have been very insistent.


A little off topic, but I really like it when I see providers raising their rates. This is a tough job in a tough world and these ladies deserve proper compensation. Dudes who try to negotiate or lowball the ladies are the absolute worst.