ATF vs Variety... What Say You?

DallasDoc's Avatar
ATF, with an occasional "Lewis and Clark" adventure.

ATF, always knows what I want and desire, always enjoy our time.
suiram77's Avatar
Boo on that BS, new pussy is the best pussy Originally Posted by theboss21422
I feel that +100
Captain Caveman's Avatar
A few years back I had an ATF... then she disappeared on me. Retirement...

I like having a handful of regular ladies that I can visit. "Oh, I haven't seen <fill in the blank> for awhile. I wonder what she is up to?"
Clit Lover's Avatar
ATF for me definitely! Being older, comfort level means a lot to me as far as the ability to perform. ATF doesn't mean each session is always the same. You can still have variety with an ATF. I dabble in strange once in awhile when someone really catches my eye.
RideFreeInTexas's Avatar
ATF for me too. My ATF's are sugar babies though. The advantages are that time is basically whatever I want, might be an hour or might be all night for the same price. Might just be a sexual visit or it might be dinner, shopping, sex and hanging out and cuddling/ talking. The providers I've seen were definitely more business-oriented than relationship-oriented, and I totally understand that and it works for infrequent visits. But personally I want more than that from an "ATF".
timothe's Avatar
ATF for me too. My ATF's are sugar babies though. The advantages are that time is basically whatever I want, might be an hour or might be all night for the same price. Might just be a sexual visit or it might be dinner, shopping, sex and hanging out and cuddling/ talking. The providers I've seen were definitely more business-oriented than relationship-oriented, and I totally understand that and it works for infrequent visits. But personally I want more than that from an "ATF". Originally Posted by RideFreeInTexas
Agreed. I'm starting to like the idea of a SB plus the occasional transactional encounter. It keeps things interesting for me.
Guest042715's Avatar
Both! I've had variety and have an ATF. Now enjoy great variety with the ATF. Best of all worlds! Yea me!
5150's Avatar
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  • 06-11-2014, 10:23 AM
Use to be into variety to the point of 1 and done. Lately moving more towards ATF have found 2 ladies who just click with sex is fantastic, have fun, enjoy getting to know each other
I prefer an ATF. Getting to know each other has allowed for some very fun experimentation. The down side is when a favorite retires......
It's like when you go to a restaurant - you get that one menu item that just blows you away. You think about that dish and can't wait to eat it again. And every time you go back to the restaurant you see all these other dishes that tempt you, but you're not sure if it's worth changing just for the sake of variety. You look on a review site and lots of people like the burritos, but you've personally had the nachos and know for a fact you will be completely satisfied. Still, the burritos look pretty good, but it could just be the picture on the menu. The cook may have it off that day and the burritos taste like fish tacos instead. They may have e coli all over it. You just don't know. They're the same price and you don't go to the restaurant very often. If only you could sample the burrito along side the nachos!

In the end I'll take the nachos as long as they taste delectable!
doug_dfw's Avatar
^^^^^^^^^^
all of the above.
my preference is having some favs and meeting some new women who'll hopefully becum favs.

and having variety w/in my favs, like FunInDFW said - 20-somethings, 30-somethings, 40-somethings, 50-somethings. blondes, brunettes, red heads. great oral artistes, great lovers, great body rub/massagers. those close by, those a bit farther away. those with slim slim bodies those the right kind of curves in the right place.

and having favs who enjoy mixing it up - being interviewed for a sexretarial job, being lightly restrained and blindfolded to be enjoyed by me, just having a men's white shirt on and nothing else, wearing fishnet body stocking that has an open crotch, playing the housewife who is desperate for sex, wearing sweatpants and tshirt like she just came from the gym, driving in her car to a parking garage and having bbbj me tc nqns!


keeping encounters "weird", different, and strange, one deliteful encounter at a time! Originally Posted by pmdelites

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doug_dfw's Avatar
d Originally Posted by doug_dfw
Messed up sorry meant I wished I was 30 again Now ATF
ATF by all means. I tend to just stick to an ATF. Likewise I was a variety guy at one time, too much hassle now to set anything up, maybe my age now, possibly why tolerance level for anything of a hassle to be low regardless of what it is.

If you click with someone and she goes out of her way to keep you happy, you should always keep seeing her likewise treat her right. You know each other's preferences, no issues with getting responses and dates, so I stick with an ATF especially if you hit it off really well from the getgo. Reason why she is an ATF.
rexdutchman's Avatar
3-5 atfs is the way to go
texassmoke's Avatar
Vnurse is my ATF but every now and then it's nice to find a new toy
But for the most part love the connection
With a close friend