How to respond when BBFS offered by Provider?

you forgot the last alternative Rand Al'Thor, the other 50 out of 100 guys that want to see her!

Even if, don't come in here with that nonsense about who you know BB's but won't say. It should be a pointable offense, IMO, because it's nothing but trolling.

you forgot the last alternative Rand Al'Thor, the other 50 out of 100 guys that want to see her! Originally Posted by kittyloveratx

the "avoid" in his comment was meant to convey exactly that in a sarcastic manner.....

You really seem "off" today.....

I guess we were about due for yet another BBFS thread...

I have to question your decision to state that you won't out the young lady, yet you wave the carrot of her "fairly recent stellar reviews". You're going to have a box full of PMs asking "Is it x?"

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A member since 2009 but one post (this one) and no reviews? Originally Posted by Sir Hardin Thicke

If this is the same guy he was back on ASPD. Had a pinguin avatar. We didnt see eye to eye on a few topics...........speaking of

Back on topic

We are all adults. If you play safe than you shouldnt be worried about what other people do. If you bareback than there should be cause for concern if others are barebacking. Lets all grow up here fellas, no need for an alert. It happens everyday and it is seen as taboo so no one talks about it, but be assured that it is going on far more frequently than anyone will ever admit. Dont start freaking out like none of you have never done it.........it happens........plain and simple.



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In her defense, she did present this as my choice to make -- it was not an "imposition" on her part. (I must, however, speculate that perhaps this "relaxed policy" partially explains this young lady's fairly recent stellar reviews.) Originally Posted by The Diletante

Yeap, offering Stellar reviews in exchange for a "relaxed policy" is no surprise, especially if the lady is young or new to the hobby. They are convinced a review will make them or brake them. But it is Top Secret, we are not suppose to talk about that.
or charge extra lol.

Well, if she is offering it and is cool with it and you are interested in it then take her up on it...if nothing else it should make the next three months or so pretty exciting for you while you wait to see if you have HIV or herpes...or even better knocked her up and can pay for her(noooo make that y'all's) kid for the next 18 years or so. If you're married your wife will undoubtedly appreciate you barebacking hookers and it will certainly raise your status amongst the people with brains in our little community.

That was sarcasm if I managed to confuse any rocket scientists that read SHMB in their spare time.

I don't know you Francisca but I really like what I've seen from you lately. Keep fighting the good fight.

Yeap, offering Stellar reviews in exchange for a "relaxed policy" is no surprise, especially if the lady is young or new to the hobby. They are convinced a review will make them or brake them. But it is Top Secret, we are not suppose to talk about that.
or charge extra lol. Originally Posted by Ms Francisca

Yeap, offering Stellar reviews in exchange for a "relaxed policy" is no surprise, especially if the lady is young or new to the hobby. They are convinced a review will make them or brake them. But it is Top Secret, we are not suppose to talk about that.
or charge extra lol. Originally Posted by Ms Francisca

Of course you can't charge extra. You are saving on supplies!
You should pass on a discount!

LMFAO.

Of course you can't charge extra. You are saving on supplies!
You should pass on a discount! Originally Posted by Whispers

Sophia,
The problem with posting her name is you're right she will deny it and then it becomes a he said she said situation. But the bigger problem is what about when a hobbyist gets pissed at a provider for whatever reason and he decides to get even by posting this shit. It doesn't matter if he is telling the truth or not the damage is done. Originally Posted by Budman

I'm aware of that. That's why I said that other guys could post their experiences so people could decide who is telling the truth. If one angry hobbyist lies about a girl offering him BBFS, she denies it, and then it is followed up by dozens of mongers chiming in that they have never been offered BBFS, then as far as I'm concerned, the community can probably infer that the lady is telling the truth.

LMFAO. Originally Posted by Hannah Heresy

See... How could you, even for a moment, get mad at me honey... I make ya laugh!

I don't know you Francisca but I really like what I've seen from you lately. Keep fighting the good fight. Originally Posted by Hannah Heresy

I like you also

No alert.

Why?

You should not be making decisions about which providers to see based on what you think you know they are doing with other clients, or pretty much anyone any time you are not actually in their presence. Better just surrender all illusions you might have on this point and act accordingly.

With the very rarest of exceptions, you do not know these women. In many cases you have an image in your head of who they are, based on being a customer (perhaps placed their by her, more often concocted by you) that has little or no basis in reality. 99%+ of the time imagining that you know something as personal as whether a certain provider is more or less safe than another is completely absurd.

One alert by one guy on one provider will not change this at all.

Usually these uninformative, accusation based and intentionally vague alert type threads are initiated with an agenda. It's getting old.
While a hobbyist might decline the offer I seriously doubt he would actually run to the board with it. He wasn't robbed, scammed, threatened etc..

We are adults in the hobby. It happens regularly out there which is why as adults in the hobby we automatically assume it is not only a possibility but a likelihood in every case (For both sides) and take the necessary precautions during sessions. This is just plain old Hobby sense.
Did you immediately get up and run out the door upon receiving the offer?

Was there really an offer or is this just the usual sour grapes? I am skeptical because I am tired of threads that stir the pot clearly to generate alarm without any info provided.