No Daty no date?

Ok question for you guys

Personally I won't DATY. I'm in a relationship and I worry about my partner's pleasure not my escorts. I am paying for their time and well to be honest I would like to be pampered while I am there and just relax. What is the allure of DATY? Also I am sure a majority of guys who are absolutely terrible at it but the providers fake enjoys it and they end up thinking they are doing a good job. Is it just some individuals turn on?

I hate my clit being sucked on it's not a baby bottle lol. Originally Posted by Paven

i Love DATY but baby bottle is not what it is!!!

Nothing better than DATY. Love the wonderful taste of a lady. I also am not seeing them totally for my gratification. I like them enjoying the session as much as I do.

DATY rocks!

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It's not the act itself that I prefer.

If I am going to see a woman, it is because I genuinely like her as a person. The fact she is a provider is irrelevant.

Well, if I like her, I see things as more reciprocal. She's not really there to "service" me. She has the same right as any other woman to say no to particular things, etc.

But with only one exception not germane to the current discussion, she also has the same rights as a civie woman I took out on a date -- which means she has a right to all the kindness, consideration and attention a woman would ordinarily expect on such an occasion. If I weren't disposed to render such attentions, what would be the point?

Because I genuinely like her, I want her to enjoy our time together as much as I do.

What will it take for her to enjoy our time together as much as I do?

Maybe it is a full or part-body massage. Maybe it is daty. Maybe it is conversation. Who knows?

When I finish a date, I like to be confident that the woman's overall enjoyment of our time together is genuine, and that she may have benefited from that time in more than just a pecuniary way.

Frankly, because women are so psychosexually complex, even if I were the most amazing lover ever -- and I am quite sure that I am not -- I cannot be confident that there is anything I can do specifically in the sexual realm that would contribute to a woman's enjoyment of the time.

But I prefer dates to encompass more than merely sex because, again, if I see a woman it is because I like her. So I can be reasonably certain that within the compass of the date as a whole, the woman enjoyed our time together.

So my overall focus really is the woman as a whole; and that MAY manifest in certain sex acts IF the woman is disposed, amenable, and stands better than even odds of enjoying them to some reasonable degree. But it could just as easily mean a hand massage.

However, even though I am not focused on the particular sex act of DATY, the fact that a woman does not accept it could in some cases be a red flag to me. It could be an indication of a woman who will "service" me. While that is a perfectly fine business model, it's not my particular cup of tea. Originally Posted by Laurentius

I love this Laurentius.

For me it is simple - no DATY, no date. I get immense pleasure from pleasing a woman - if she is can have and enjoy multiple orgasms it is even better.

Well, how about "no Daty, no Donation.

Ok question for you guys

Personally I won't DATY. I'm in a relationship and I worry about my partner's pleasure not my escorts. I am paying for their time and well to be honest I would like to be pampered while I am there and just relax. What is the allure of DATY? Also I am sure a majority of guys who are absolutely terrible at it but the providers fake enjoys it and they end up thinking they are doing a good job. Is it just some individuals turn on? Originally Posted by randomuser10

Whether you do or don't is up to you.

As far as the allure: if you don't know, it can't be explained.

I love it.. I believe I'm quite good at it (I just did it a little while ago and plan on writing a review when I have more time)
Im very audio-stimulated and theres nothing like the sweet music of thoser moans to get me going again. Pay or no pay, if my partner isn't getting her pleasure, I may as well just be taking care of myself.. it's a 2 way street (preferably one with a lot of curves), to a good sexual experience.

For me it is simple - no DATY, no date. I get immense pleasure from pleasing a woman - if she is can have and enjoy multiple orgasms it is even better. Originally Posted by jemery

I agree with this.

well..i wouldnt say no daty no date because ive gone to a session before and the provider was so into her job that she wanted to please me and was so good at prolonging me that bbbj and hj lasted for the duration of the session and i left a very happy man...but DATY is one of those things that i truly love and enjoy.
If the lady is willing and we both enjoy it yes i could DATY all day long because i love the taste and smell of a woman and there is no bigger turn on to me than a woman in the throws of an orgasm and the building up to that point is just sexy as hell.
I love to get a woman to the point to where she cannot control her own actions,,trembling, moaning, shaking, toe curling experience.
There is nothing more beautiful than a woman that is enjoying this particular moment and is secure enough to show all of her emotions and feelings to the man she is with.
Its a major turn on to watch a woman while im eating her!!!

I have been with women that cannot achieve orgasm thru Daty and its a bummer a big let down so i would say yes it does matter if i can give Daty or not.

I prefer it - i love to do it - and I hope the women i have been with have enjoyed recieving as much as i have enjoyed doing it.

But a date killer...no .. there are always other ways to enjoy a ladies company and i can honestly say conversation is a big part of it.
I enjoy all aspects of a lady from head to toe.

I especially love daty from a guy{or girl} with a tongue ring.....mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm


{Pipefitter you might have time to get one..lol}

Wouldn't say I'd get up and walk out if a lady said 'don't go there', but would definitely not consider going back unless she just completely blew my mind otherwise (or it was, say, like a B&G scheduled)
Definitely isn't a GFE for me without it.. I like to make absolutely sure my GF cums and that's my insurance policy.

I especially love daty from a guy{or girl} with a tongue ring.....mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm


{Pipefitter you might have time to get one..lol} Originally Posted by DallasRain

I can just see it now-
Wife- Honey, why did you get a tongue ring?
Pipefitter- DallasRain told me to.

I think I DATY good without one....maybe....I hope anyway....or so I've been told.

lol..pipfitter ..
I agree with you a tongue ring might cause a few questions to be asked.
but if its like dallas said and it makes it better ..what the hell ..i might get drunk one night and tell the wife it was a dare...lol