Prepay

ALWAYS say that you only have cash!
Even if you plan to pay digitally, NEVER tell them that it's an option or lead to them believing that it is one.

If they even mention the word deposit, and then ghost you after you say you only have cash, then you just saved yourself from being SCAMMED!!!

I don't request deposits or anything up front. I have asked them to cover a room, if I'm driving an hour or 2 to see only them. I'm hearing more girls asking for deposits all the time. Reputable ladies included, they're tired of cancelations & ncns. We plan time for a gent who doesn't show, in the mean time gents who would arrive are being turned away. Pretty soon cash will be a currency of the past for all us citizens. Till then, I'm good w/ COD.