Seeking Arrangement.com

I was a dancer when I found that site also. I have never had an SD and was just looking at all my options. I do love being an escort though.

Hey Baily I am serious....................... ...........ly wanting to smack that ass Originally Posted by dirty dog

It always gets my attention as well...but I would rather plant a ki...
well you know what I'm trying to say..

i was just curious if anyone is having any good luck on there?? Originally Posted by apack77

Escorts and Sugarbabies are two different things. There used to be a SugarDaddy forum in National where the merits of these sites and the whole sub-genre was discussed in much more depth.

That said, I have never had much luck with this site or the others like it sugardaddy4me, sugarsugar, etc. I have kept my free membership on SA just because it is fun to browse for a chuckle now and then. I have run accross both providers I met through eccie as well as women I dated IRL on SA.

I was on the site for two years, I met a lot of college girls needing some help paying bills, I did my part and they in turn parted their legs or lips (little college sugar babies / escorts, they were UTR)...
but most wanted me to buy them a new car or give them cash up front... those were the Fake girls...
I am no longer use any of these sites... because it turned into a joke when the news got a hold of it...
then everyone (girls) from BP and CL started posting on there looking for a sugar daddy....

i kinda just view it as like a safer backpage.. and they text and more so try to be your friend in and out of the bed.. where with an escort its normally just all business.

apack, definitely not flaming on ya...however

Does your lawyer, accountant, plumber...heck even yard guy seek to be your friend???

Of course it's all about business...but that doesn't mean you can't enjoy some solid business friendships

Now SB, when well done, is a different horse....but make no mistake about, even with a healthy SB arrangement, there is also a strong business component to it as well

I love the site, I have had two arrangements on here, 5k monthly for each SB. A lot of these girls are just normal college students who need cash. I have the hottest sugarbaby/girlfriend. I am 58, she is 24 in grad school. Smoking body. I love it. It really has turned into a joke though, I do occasionally look at the site, the quality has gone down on both ends. Being a sugar daddy is not about finding some girl to fuck, I am well known and have women throwing themselves all over me. It's about finding someone who you can help. What do I expect in return? Well other than arm candy, I feel good knowing that I am giving someone a lifestyle they could not have. My baby does not have to work, she can focus on school. The sex is great, but we didn't even have sex until after 3 months into the arrangement.

Really?

$15K before having sex???

You are a better man than I am, lol. $5k per month for 1 SB????...I know we all have our own budgets and make our own choices...so good for you.
I also realize that when a bunch of hobbists are sitting around talking about how many times they made their favorite gal cum...the first liar doesn't have a chance,lol

I know you are not asking for advice, but just IMO, a steady $5k per month is more like buying than leasing.

Nevertheless congrats on your journey...and I totally agree, SB's are a totally different deal than working out a deal with a provider

$15K before having sex???

You are a better man than I am, lol. $5k per month for 1 SB????...I know we all have our own budgets and make our own choices...so good for you.
I also realize that when a bunch of hobbists are sitting around talking about how many times they made their favorite gal cum...the first liar doesn't have a chance,lol

I know you are not asking for advice, but just IMO, a steady $5k per month is more like buying than leasing.

Nevertheless congrats on your journey...and I totally agree, SB's are a totally different deal than working out a deal with a provider Originally Posted by vkmaster

Yeah 5k doesn't really break the bank and I do agree that everyone has their budget. She is worth it, and seeing her growth is really enriching, she is starting her own business and pretty soon she won't need me haha, but she has really made my life more exciting. Sex is great, but I wasn't seeking her out for mainly sex. I needed someone who I could take to black tie events, someone sexy and intelligent and I am glad the sex happened naturally because she is more comfortable with me.

I've tried regular dating, but found this lifestyle more exciting and less stressful. My first SB was also a provider on the side, she was also a student just trying to make it. We weren't no where as close as me and my second SB, but her allowance was like 3k and she was great too.

You have to be kidding.

He could have an hour with a $300 girl every other day and still have money left over from $5k each month, so clearly he gets more out of it than just sex.

Still, I wish I had $60k a year to blow on hookers.

He could have an hour with a $300 girl every other day and still have money left over from $5k each month, so clearly he gets more out of it than just sex.

Still, I wish I had $60k a year to blow on hookers. Originally Posted by KCQuestor

SD/SB relationships are not your typical 'per hour' charge. It's a different dynamic, and doesn't make sense to hobbiests, but those that like more intimate and familiar relationships, it might work. "Value" is completely relative, and my value is different than yours. If you can afford 60k on a SB and it makes you happy, more power to you! Most SD/SB relationships are not that expensive.

He could have an hour with a $300 girl every other day and still have money left over from $5k each month, so clearly he gets more out of it than just sex.

Still, I wish I had $60k a year to blow on hookers. Originally Posted by KCQuestor

That's $164.38 if you're on a hooker-a-day diet. That's a diet that I'd like to go on.

~Sugar Relationships~ are not for everyone but if both parties are on the same page can be very rewarding and fulfilling!! I have been in a few ~Arrangements~ in which we both satisfied one anothers needs... I have personally had luck on SA, but like everything else online, there are several fakes ~ time wasters and game players...