s.o. has no sexual fantasies?

Mo s/o is like so many here... maybe that why WE are here
She is just not interested or will partake like a zombie... there is no fun in my home sex life.

I play here to keep the spark alive...

I have lived so long with my SO that it wasn't until 15 years ago that I realized there is more to life and to sex. Being in a relationship that at the time I thought was fulfilling when it was actually boring yet satisfied a need....When the hobby took over and as it opened my eyes to other desires and ideas for a better sex it was too late to change the relationship that I have with the SO. November of 2011 opened my eyes even wider when I was introduced to the Kink world and now I'm hooked on Kink and my atf. Now there is no way in hell to discribe to the SO how satisfiying Kink is, so I have to live with it and deal with it in the Hobby world....Yes Dallas Rain your So is lucky...
Like they say if only I knew then what I know now it would be so much better....I'm living each day as tho it was my last and I'm enjoying the Kink to it's fullest....Life is too short to waste any time...enjoy it while you can........................ijs

Mo s/o is like so many here... maybe that why WE are here
She is just not interested or will partake like a zombie... there is no fun in my home sex life.

I play here to keep the spark alive... Originally Posted by houston_switch

Your SO must know my SO.

Woah..I like the comments.really thinking now lol...
Ill try to keep talkiing with my s.o. a few more times..try to see what's holding her back.
If not,not sure how the next page in the book will look like.hopfully better though.

gold-fish everyone deserves to be happy and satisfied, you control your own destiny and lifestyle, we are only here for a short time so make good use of it....ijs....good luck in resolving your issues with your SO....

Unfortunately I'm in the same boat with you guys. I have tried sexy clothes, she tries them on once and to the bottom of the drawer they go. Videos and toys didn't work either, a 2 years ago I gave up and stopped asking for it to see if she ever would and she never did.

I recently decided to start playing in the hobby as an alternative, really no other choice unless I want an unenthusiastic Cowgirl action from now on.