Canceling 15 Minutes AFTER Appointment?!

You didn't call me. I could have filled in. Originally Posted by OldLRRP

Haha you're so sweet! I'll keep you in mind next time.

I doubt this had anything to do with you & I sure hope you didn't take my words any other way. This is just is a great example of how easy it is to take typed words out of context. LOL. I never even thought about the cold feet thing possibility.

You have a good attitude about it now so write it off as the guy just getting scared & be glad it doesn't happen more often.

Now where is that bar you're meeting me at later? I'm not scared! Originally Posted by ERwhynot

Thanks. Haha glad you're not afraid to be around mean ole Bambi when she's drinking! Haha! Kidding.

If he's busy let me know, I'm offering budget friendly specials for the holidays

Can only assume cold feet - if it wasn't that then it's just rude, especially since there was no explanation. Originally Posted by EasyLover214

Haha how kind! I'm running budget friendly specials for the holidays as well. I'm just going to write it off as: it is what it is. And thankful it doesn't happen more often!

ive had the same happen to me.....got address, got here, got inside.....and I went in the other room to grab something for the session and when I came back he was heading for the front door....said this wasn't going to be a good deal for him........I was like ok.....little upsetting...but his lost. Originally Posted by starlight87

That's crazy Starlight! For him to actually be inside and wait until you leave the room to take off...wow! But you're right, it's their loss! Hugs!

I may have pulled the plug at the last minute once or twice before...but with due cause.

Usually the plug pulling is the result of series of mis-communications, schedule changes, delays, wrong information, more delays...until finally...something as simple as gate code just tips you over the edge.

...not saying that this is your case BG...but it does happen...and usually the little head is forgiving...but not always. Originally Posted by DownForWhatever

I can completely understand the whole "tip of the iceburg" thing. We ALL get to that point at times. However, that wasn't the case. In fact, I even did "same-day appointment" while typically I do 24-hours notice. Oh well, it is what it is!

But I understand what you're saying!

That was shitty of a guy to do that to you, but that is why you have to vary your incall locations and not stay stationary just in case of the stalker guys.

Now you know how it feels when a guy sets an appointment with a provider, gets ready, drives all the way to the other side of town, in traffic, gets to the area she designates and then the communication ceases.

It goes both ways and you have every right to be upset/angry about it, but the best scenario is to name the person who did this to you so that others can be aware of the shady practices of an individual.

I think most hobbyist and providers understand the frustrations of canceled appointments. But not going through with a session should be a 2 way street. I am not defending this guy but it has been brought up many times to listen to you gut and maybe that is what he did, even though his gut may have been wrong. You should definitely post his info in the powder room and see if others have had the same issue with him. If he is a repeat offender maybe his info will get out and he will have a harder time find good quality providers.

All of the above are sound and very possible reasons...also perhaps he saw someone he knew while dealing with the gate code and simply did not want to be noticed and seen then have to try to explain why he was there...and simply left the area. Sorry this happened, I would have waited for you at the gate.

That was shitty of a guy to do that to you, but that is why you have to vary your incall locations and not stay stationary just in case of the stalker guys.

Now you know how it feels when a guy sets an appointment with a provider, gets ready, drives all the way to the other side of town, in traffic, gets to the area she designates and then the communication ceases.

It goes both ways and you have every right to be upset/angry about it, but the best scenario is to name the person who did this to you so that others can be aware of the shady practices of an individual. Originally Posted by davidfree986

You are definitely right, it does go both ways, and I can imagine the frustration from a man's point of view. Let's just all agree to keep it classy and follow through with appointments.

I think most hobbyist and providers understand the frustrations of canceled appointments. But not going through with a session should be a 2 way street. I am not defending this guy but it has been brought up many times to listen to you gut and maybe that is what he did, even though his gut may have been wrong. You should definitely post his info in the powder room and see if others have had the same issue with him. If he is a repeat offender maybe his info will get out and he will have a harder time find good quality providers. Originally Posted by ibupro01

I 100% agree with following your gut instinct. I just sincerely hope I would never make someone feel like not going through! The whole thing was just a little puzzling, but there's a reason for everything, eh?

All of the above are sound and very possible reasons...also perhaps he saw someone he knew while dealing with the gate code and simply did not want to be noticed and seen then have to try to explain why he was there...and simply left the area. Sorry this happened, I would have waited for you at the gate. Originally Posted by goofy11

That is actually a good thought of what it could've been. Never thought of that. And you're so sweet! I'd come to the gate for you.

You could drive yourself crazy wondering why... I wouldn't sweat it. he probably just chickened out or went to the ATM and realized he was a broke dick dog.

Don't take it personally. Don't worry that sweet little ass about it.

Just call ole Glenn and worry about how many times I am gonna say giggity giggty before I goo.

I cancelled at the last minute one time only because my gf got suspicious. When that happens the only thing to do is cancel. I wouldn't worry about it.

Girl when you get together the bed will be rocking and I promise to not cancel on you...How a man does this to a nice looking women on here is amazing......Hold you chin up for there are other fellows that will treat you right.....

Posting taint photos will help eliminate the no shows ... ijs.