Getting Better Results

slight off-the-track to seek clarification ...
while i agree that a client or a provider should stay away from comments/gossip about others ...

are positive gossips comments OKAY (e.g., she has a great place, has a great body, knows a great technique ...)

but negative gossips comments NOT OKAY (e.g., she has a dumpy place, has a worn-out body, couldnt figure out how to suck/fuck well enuf to save her life ...)

cos sometimes i have discussed others w/ my provider of the hour or two. but it's usually w/ a provider i've visited many times (>4) before. (is it okay if we talk shop for a bit?) Originally Posted by pmdelites

Hmmm, if we're pretty good friends a little of the positive "shop talk" is ok. But honestly, if a gent is going on and on about other ladies (good or bad) it usually leaves me to wonder "why is he here with me?" Kinda a mood killer, don't you agree?

If you want the girlfriend experience, give me the boyfriend experience. It's only fair. Originally Posted by Adrienne Baptiste

Exactly. 😉

Outside of hygiene,upselling and the rare spotting of another client not much kills the mood for me.

Chemistry , being nice > big turn off for me old pictures , no IOP , "are you done " just saying

Always goes slow until I lick my eyebrows.

... but if you walk away and I know your ATF's daycare schedule and apartment number... YOU have gone too far.

I try to push the convo AWAY from talk of others. Since it is just you and I in the room, it should stay about you and I. Originally Posted by ~Ze~ responded ...

Hmmm, if we're pretty good friends a little of the positive "shop talk" is ok. But honestly, if a gent is going on and on about other ladies (good or bad) it usually leaves me to wonder "why is he here with me?" Kinda a mood killer, don't you agree? Originally Posted by Laura Lynn responded ...

~Ze~ and laura, exactly. some but not too much!

and often times, it has been the provider asking me who else i've consulted with. i tend to keep it short or tell funny encounter stories.

that my favs still accept appts from me tells me that i havent crossed over the line too far :^}
or that they like my collection of andrew jacksons :^}


now, all, back to the OP's question.

Aside from poor hygiene....a few things can really put a damper on a session for me.

1) talk of ALL the other ladies you have seen...I don't care. As long as you are screened we do not need to discuss them.
2) have a checklist of activities and literally call things out play by play. Let things flow naturally, it'll end up being way more fun.
3)most of us ladies have a clock in our incalls, I know 90% of you guys wear a watch, do not stay over your time and make us have to ask you to leave. If you book an hour, that's what you have. An hour. Do not play for 50 min then want too shower and stay and talk for 25 minutes after your hour is up. If you want convo then book 90 min or play for 30. It's actually gotten quite ridiculous with a few folks. Be respectful of our time.

1) talk of ALL the other ladies you have seen...I don't care. As long as you are screened we do not need to discuss them. Originally Posted by Kendall4U

A similar turn off from the ladies. Booking some appointment in the future and talk about how you've got a client coming at x time before or something similar. Or a pm saying you had "1 spot" open up today. Or even worse "I can squeeze you in." I'll pass on the revolving door talk.

A similar turn off from the ladies. Booking some appointment in the future and talk about how you've got a client coming at x time before or something similar. Or a pm saying you had "1 spot" open up today. Or even worse "I can squeeze you in." I'll pass on the revolving door talk. Originally Posted by FunInDFW

That's crazy. I have no idea why a lady would want anyone to know that she is high volume. Get your hustle on ladies but keep certain things to yourself. Eek gads. Discretion comes in a lot of forms.