a question for overnighters

You guys talk as if you're on a date ///eat dinner ]]] then sex \\\\\then sleep..then sex...I 'm not paying her to eat or to sleep\\clockfree date fer sure..if you want a date try ematch

personally if a woman like shayla was in my town for a couple days i would rather see her several times for an hour or 2 when i knew i was physically up for the moment than be with the girl of my dream and either waste a minute sleeping or by physically drained not allowing me to perform for any time. i really could see doing an 8 am appointment reliving every second and going back energized and horny as hell at 6 pm for seconds.

Done them a few times. They can be fun. Dinner, drinks, sex, more drinks, sex, more drinks, sleep, wake up, sex. I don't get it either, really. If I was a guy I wouldn't pay for it. Over night rates are the same as seeing 8 different girls. Meh... If they've got the money and they want to, let them. Originally Posted by Shayla

well obviously there are different types of hobbyist who are in the market for completely different things- nothing wrong with that.

One man's pleasure is another's disdain- but I love overnights but they are usually great dates to restaurants or events and it's so relaxing not to have to worry about time constraints, not to try and fight the wave of tiring sleep after participating in exhaustingly amazing sex, and maybe it is just me but i love getting woken up by a hard dick poking me in the morning. I don't know what it is about getting poked in the back but I guess it turns me on that my date desires me from the second he wakes up.

But that's just me.

I love overnighters. While we all claim "not a clock watcher" when I do a one hour session, I am actually watching the clock, I do not want to overstay my welcome. Very little sleeping takes place on overnighters in my experience, about 2 hours, lol. I like not having a time limit. Even on my 4 hour extended dates I am still watching the clock, but on an overnighter I can completely realx and not worry about the clock. I am not interested in a warm body next to me sleeping, but on an overnighter we do snuggle, cuddle, have slow and wonderful sex and then fast and wonderful sex.

My last overnighter the lady on one episode took her time to caress me and stroke me in such a way that was just WOW!!! Not something she ever had time for in an hour. The storking led to oral and 69, but real slow, smooth, methodic, rythmic, and slow build. It was a WOW experience for me.

After a break we did more positions and more f..ing then I would have gotten in just hourly with her. At one point it got more animalistic with gropping, grabbing, licking, sucking, etc. etc.

Yep, I like overnighters. But if I schedule with you please do not plan on much sleeping, rest up before hand.

I always see the lady for a few hourly and then extended dates before overnight, to learn each other.

well obviously there are different types of hobbyist who are in the market for completely different things- nothing wrong with that.

One man's pleasure is another's disdain- but I love overnights but they are usually great dates to restaurants or events and it's so relaxing not to have to worry about time constraints, not to try and fight the wave of tiring sleep after participating in exhaustingly amazing sex, and maybe it is just me but i love getting woken up by a hard dick poking me in the morning. I don't know what it is about getting poked in the back but I guess it turns me on that my date desires me from the second he wakes up.

But that's just me. Originally Posted by SkylarCruzWantsYou

Nicely said M'Lady. It does seem those of us who enjoy the wider variety of delights in an overnight are more understanding of those who don't than the other way around, but such is always the case it seems.

Well . . .I SNORE . . .when I sleep. dDnno if I could do her justice an an overnight.

Now, if the provider goes north of $1,500 for an overnighter, that enters the unreasonable range. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

That depends on her 1h rate, does not? I personally set my overnight rate at 5x hourly

Lina

I have done a lot of overnights with a few selected clients. In my experience, the client has never viewed it as paying for sleep. I think the feeling of a tight, warm body snuggled against them all night is what entices them. That and the fact that almost everytime we shift in our sleep, it usually ends in... "shifting"...

Originally Posted by Lovelyelle_01

I feel the same way. I don't do many overnighters at all. If someone I have never seen wants an overnighter, I refuse because I want to get a good rapport with him by seeing him a few times before hand. And I agree that 'not paying for sleep' sounds like your cheapening the worth of the evening that is supposed to be about intimacy and snuggling and teasing, and then waking up ( if you get any sleep at all next to a beautiful woman you are a dead sleeper) and having a little breakfast in bed

That depends on her 1h rate, does not? I personally set my overnight rate at 5x hourly

Lina Originally Posted by Sensual Lina

Yes, it does depend on her 1 hour rate. It also depends on the expected amount of playtime. On an overnight date, how much time is expected to be spent playing? If the provider (as some have indicated in this thread) only allows "X" amount of playtime and expects "Y" amount of downtime/sleeptime, then it becomes a question of value. Most providers I see have hourly donation rates between 250 and 300. If I'm getting a limited amount of play time during an overnight date, I expect a reasonable rate. Now on the other hand, if a provider doesn't place a limit on playtime during an overnighter, than sure, I'd be willing to go north of 1,500. I just don't want to be told at 3 am to knock it off. Does that make sense?

If the only measure of quality a guy has is how a lady performs in bed, overnights are not for him--he would likely walk away disapointed in what he got. It is much more the whole experience,........but you have to be into the romance..... Originally Posted by Old-T

Speak for yourself there....lol. Sex of course isn't the only measure of pleasure, but its damn sure an important on if I'm booking a large portions of time. I'm into GFE and do BFE activities as well, but as far as romance that's a little far fetched. I'm a young buck and principally above and beyond anything else that will occur, I want to be rocked BCD. Plenty of time for pillowtalk, sleeping, and cuddling between sessions.

Even going out to dinner is not a certified thing I always seek on overnights. It all depends on the look and the ladies demeanor. Some ladies are chameleon and can adapt to a situation where they are in public.....and others are just more reserved to providing their best talents in the bed room. As far as going out to dinner is concerned, and or talking long "timed" walks on the beach in your pursuit of romance,......anything other than mutual satisfaction BCD to me should be encouraged as gratutity when it happens, not just expected.......sometimes I just want to be rocked BCD for a large portion of time in increments during the night. If she has limitations about sex, required uninterrupted sleep, and then onee sex session in the morning she would not be the type of woman Id want to see. There would be no values in booking that large portion of time.

Usually during a twelve hour overnight I'm actively engaged, massaging, and doing fourplay for 6 of the twelve hours. Sleep is usually intermittent and I usually have 3 to five seperate sessions
During that period. I'm really not seeing why guys are seeing ladies who have an uninterrupted sleep clause in their oernight rate structures........lol. Seems real wifey to me.....

it would be reasonable to pay $1,000 to $1,200 for the encounter. That would be $250-$300 per play hour. Now, if the provider goes north of $1,500 for an overnighter, that enters the unreasonable range. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

I like your first range of rate structure better but sadly most reputable independents don't consider 1 grand an some change (about 88 dollars and hour for ten to twelve hours) as resonable compensation for 10 to 12 hour bookings anymore like they used to about 3 years ago. Usually with a relative unknown on backpage I can go as low as between 700 to 1000max as a start asking price. Reputable independents (who don't have a rate posted) I can usually get between 800 to 1300. But it seems the new norm rate for ladies who post their overnight packages in many cities beside Texas seems to be 1500. The allure of 1000 isn't so strong as it use to be, but also my initial asking price is usually defined by how much her initial rate is.

and maybe it is just me but i love getting woken up by a hard dick poking me in the morning. I don't know what it is about getting poked in the back but I guess it turns me on that my date desires me from the second he wakes up.

But that's just me. Originally Posted by SkylarCruzWantsYou

Yep sounds like the type I would seek lol.

That depends on her 1h rate, does not? I personally set my overnight rate at 5x hourly

Lina Originally Posted by Sensual Lina

Well your hourly rate is 400. Your situation is very different because your initial hourly rate is also exclusive to only certain types of clients in an of itself. The biggest thing for me is booking more time for a slight monetary values in your rates for more time. Five times your rate structure is 2G's..........my initial offer (since its not on your website lol hypothetically would have been no less than 1400). But let's just say hypothetically your hour rate was 200....in that case I could not justify paying 2000 or even as low as 1700 because their is no monetary incentive in her rates for more booked time. She would just be multiplying her rate by the amount of hours booked.....and in that case only id be paying her to sleep lol.

For me a lot factors in for me for paying 1500 or more.....a full menu with swallows and drop dead gorgeous appearance would only influence that tremendously for me.

If the provider (as some have indicated in this thread) only allows "X" amount of playtime and expects "Y" amount of downtime/sleeptime, then it becomes a question of value...........I just don't want to be told at 3 am to knock it off. Does that make sense? Originally Posted by Cpalmson

Exactly. I agree. Its merely a timewaster, o she just sets limits because she knows that she can't really perform for a large duration of that booked time anyways.

Exactly. I agree. Its merely a timewaster, o she just sets limits because she knows that she can't really perform for a large duration of that booked time anyways. Originally Posted by gimme_that

Yes I save the beauty sleep for when I return home and always should arrive to an overnight well rested.

I remember I had one overnight we had micronaps in between the fuckfest, it felt like sunday morning sex all night long.Never left the bed

Skylar. I think I need to visit Tigerland again. I agree with all of your comments.

It's really special to spend a delightful evening with a woman you know and trust: do dinner, attend a special event, be carnal, sleep well, wake up, freshen up and return to bed for morning delights.

I would never do an overnight.

First of all, even though I have an SO, we sleep in separate beds and in separate rooms. I'm used to sleeping alone!!! I'm told I snore very loudly, even though I've never heard myself. This would be torture to any one else in the room.

Second, I'm used to sleeping alone. Having someone else there would be awkward and uncomfortable. I'm not drawn to that scenario.

Third, the fees I see are generally outside my budget.

Speak for yourself there....lol. Sex of course isn't the only measure of pleasure, but its damn sure an important on if I'm booking a large portions of time. I'm into GFE and do BFE activities as well, but as far as romance that's a little far fetched. I'm a young buck and principally above and beyond anything else that will occur, I want to be rocked BCD. Plenty of time for pillowtalk, sleeping, and cuddling between sessions. Originally Posted by gimme_that

No problem! You'll get old like the rest of us soon enough!