All of this wanting to pay less for less..

Then the other side of that argument is limited GFE should be limited pay and the providers who upsell for Greek, CIM or MSOG within the time frame of the appointment. Originally Posted by davidfree986

Yep, and there should be better quality control policies in place....money back guarantees, etc.

Here would be a good slogan :
If the pussy is wack, you get your money back.

You asked. I'm just trying to give you my perspective. Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

A lasting coversation has to be two sided, yes?

As far as I am concerned, I pay for a period of time. That time includes a mutually agreed upon list of activities that can take place. If I choose to not avail myself of all those activites that's my issue not the ladys. As long as I am allowed to partake in what I want to that is part of the activity list she gets paid the amount for her time we agreed on.

Now, if the lady said I can do something then changes her mind after I get there I think it is reasonable to expect some kind of consideration for not providing what she agreed to.

I will say the list of activities available does affect what I am willing to pay for a block of time. But that is a choice I make ahead of time.

As far as I am concerned, I pay for a period of time. That time includes a mutually agreed upon list of activities that can take place. If I choose to not avail myself of all those activites that's my issue not the ladys. As long as I am allowed to partake in what I want to that is part of the activity list she gets paid the amount for her time we agreed on.

Now, if the lady said I can do something then changes her mind after I get there I think it is reasonable to expect some kind of consideration for not providing what she agreed to.

I will say the list of activities available does affect what I am willing to pay for a block of time. But that is a choice I make ahead of time. Originally Posted by OldButStillGoing

Bingo! Very well said

Alyssa alot of us feel that way, but this isnt the place to address it. Im suprised you have not been attacked yet.
As humans we always want a steal in life, but the difference is this is very emotionally tasking. I raised my rates as this has to be worth it for me, as I really do try to provide IOP. Just put up with what you can and leave the rest for others. Different strokes for different folks.

Why isn't this the place to discuss it?
I never said anyone was wrong or right. I just stated how I felt and asked how others felt.
If anyone wanted to attack me, well.. I would use my grown up self and ignore them and just pay attention to the constructive feedback that I was given.
This is the coed forum, yes?

It sounds to me like some ladies are like ordering at Ruth's Chris where a steak is one price, a side is another, and a dessert is still again another price with drinks on top of it all. Other ladies are like a one price buffet (some are all you can eat too).

As long as you're upfront with it does it really matter?

I really enjoy DATY, but not everyone is as good at it as they think, and there is really nothing worse than having a stranger down there performing bad DATY. Originally Posted by SweetMelody

Amen to that. Sometimes I feel like putting on a leather catsuit and cracking a whip over his back until he gets it right. But alas, I wasn't paid to be a dominatrix. Tsk Tsk.

Other ladies are like a one price buffet (some are all you can eat too). Originally Posted by Brass Balls

That's why my GFE is all-inclusive.

II guess I just prefer to be the buffet and I don't understand why someone would want to go through the hassle of making it anything less. Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

Also, if you have a tiered rate/service structure, you get to choose who gets which level of service and avoid having to be intimate with those less desirable.

Who started this idea?
Seriously...
.... Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

Consumer Cellular. Why pay for the things you don't use? I just wanna pay for the things I actually use.





So blame them and the AARP.

That's why all these fuckers wanna just lick the jar; becasue they can't cut the mustard.

The nickle and dime or piecemeal-ing of what should* be a luxury sport sure takes the fun out of it.

Let em shop how they want...

30-mins with a lady who looks nothing like her pics, gives lousy service and is meaner then a snake is better then a full hour or two of hell.

I'm a 2-hour min. guy. Do my homework and ask around. However there have been times when I prayed the session would end in 15 minutes.

I.e. Some guys might want a test-drive before doing a full lease.

Rare honesty on this board. I like it.

Who started this idea?
Seriously...
Wanting to pay less because you aren't having full on sex. That only cost factor in that is a condom. Did it ever occur to you that some of us enjoy the sex?
Bbbj only.. Daty only.. Did it ever occur to you that is a more intimate, vulnerable activity for some? I love giving blow jobs, but for me to spread my legs and let you have a snack is the most vulnerable that you will find me.
Has it ever occurred to you that what you may think is "less work" is actually more work?
Want to just go to dinner? If we have nothing in common and you use me as a therapist, that time together will be so hard on me. It will be emotionally draining...
I cannot be the only person who thinks this way. In fact, I know I'm not. I have discussed it with other people before.

Point is, if you are getting off on it... That's what matters!

These talks always remind me of this guy I see in Las Vegas. He has a sign that says, "kick me in the nuts for 20." This guy is a genius! People totally think they are funny.. Kicking some poor dude in the nuts for $20. Well, my best friend is a dominatrix. People pay her to do that! This guy totally has a fetish and he has learned how to make a profit off of it. The people who do it are enjoying it, the have a story to tell... It's a double win. Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie

Alyssa....It someone tries to run the hustle on a man when they get together or even on here if it comes across this way many individuals will not see that person....What needs to be considered by yourself is that you are not the only woman on here, there are many many beautiful woman of different races, ethnic backgrounds along with shapes and sizes which and individual can see...

Each one can be very passionate with the fellow that they are seeing and that individual will create business for them....Yourself you seem to be shooting yourself in the foot over and over again...