Without the wonderful gentlemen who had TOFTT with myself, and with all the other ladies, well....we would never have had our first date, or our first review. Breaking into the hobby can be just as hard for a new girl as it is for a new hobbiest. If no one vouches for you, how do you get your foot in the door?
We need our hunters, we also need our newbie friendly providers. We should all give them a lot more respect.
ilikepie- I would have passed on her myself, wanting to see you an hour before the sceduled time just does not sound right to me. Either she was LE or she has some poor management skills.
She was right with not discussing activities, that rule of thumb protects you just as well.