Does this bother you too?

Just download some porn and get some sandpaper.

Just because you have P411, does not mean you have the golden key yet. When you get a half dozen or so "OK's", then booking becomes much easier.

Until then, you are an unknown, and you will make ladies nervous.

Just download some porn and get some sandpaper. Originally Posted by pyramider

That did the trick. Fantasy complete. Just like it happened.

Just because you have P411, does not mean you have the golden key yet. When you get a half dozen or so "OK's", then booking becomes much easier.

Until then, you are an unknown, and you will make ladies nervous. Originally Posted by texasjohn1965

That is a catch 22 to find a half dozen or so ladies with "nerves of steel" that will give you an OK.

I understand your point and can respect someone being nervous but wouldn't it be better to just say they aren't comfy with it instead of saying ok then not following through?

Yes it does and thats why I don't fool with someone like that.

I am currently rotating two x strippers at $120 POP. I have also had a number of women off the SA (SeekingArrangement.com) site at $100-$150. My SA e mail is a constant parade of women who want to meetup with me to fuck for money. Many will skip the initial non sex meeting and get right to the chase. I would be royally pissed with a situation like yours. She had to re-verify you? WTF is that? Sounds like she probably has too much traffic, I bet the gal is loose as a goose and fucked out. Last week I had 4 gals contacting me wanting to meetup at motel. 2 were off SA. I offer the SA gals about $120 and would never pay them what I would pay a stripper ITC (averages $200).

I think you should get a VIP at an extras club so you can bang them ITC. Then once you have had a few of them pick one who you can meet OTC. Become a reg with her and POP will come down. A profile on SA will open up another scoring venue. I understand the number of women on their looking for a SD outnumber the men 10 to 1. My photo profile gets me lots of bites. Find a girl who will give you quantity discounts.

That is a catch 22 to find a half dozen or so ladies with "nerves of steel" that will give you an OK.

I understand your point and can respect someone being nervous but wouldn't it be better to just say they aren't comfy with it instead of saying ok then not following through? Originally Posted by mountie

It's always been a catch 22. You can't see the ladies without ref's, you can't get ref's if the providers wont see you.

When I got my p411 account, the first thing I did was find a couple of newbie friendly p411 ladies. They were not first string material, but you have to pay your dues. After about 2 of the third string, I was able to see some second string. After a few of them, I got a first string lady to see me. After that, it was like someone had given me the golden pass. I could email almost anyone, and get right in. I know it's a pain in the ass to work your way up, but it is effective.

It's always been a catch 22. You can't see the ladies without ref's, you can't get ref's if the providers wont see you.

When I got my p411 account, the first thing I did was find a couple of newbie friendly p411 ladies. They were not first string material, but you have to pay your dues. After about 2 of the third string, I was able to see some second string. After a few of them, I got a first string lady to see me. After that, it was like someone had given me the golden pass. I could email almost anyone, and get right in. I know it's a pain in the ass to work your way up, but it is effective. Originally Posted by texasjohn1965

Thanks for the good advice. I think that is what I am doing. I already have 2 okays at p411 since rejoining the hobby and plan on many more. I would have hoped that with that and my trying to be considerate of her would have caused some reciprocation. I have just re-learned that it doesn't work that way always.

I am not sure where she fits on the string list, she is a relatively new "budget" provider hawking for reviews which I gladly would have given her even without the discount (I don't do "discount" reviews). One of the reasons I didn't post alot of reviews before is because I had a WK flame me for an unflattering review of a certain lady. Wasn't even all that unflattering if I recall correctly. So, in lieu of a review, I rewarded excellent service with a tip instead.

Now it doesn't matter. Good, bad or indifferent, I will review them all.

Thanks again for the help. It is much appreciated!

Some things seem to pop up at the last minute but then again some people are well known for NC/NS

Just don't let it get to you. The same shit happens in the real world, too.

I have two things to add here. 1, always have a plan B, 2, move on. Just say NEXT, maybe have a spa or two in mind.

I have been trying to schedule

Does this bother you too or is just me? Originally Posted by mountie

When I was in high school I would meet girls whose company I was interested in enjoying and they would provide me with a phone number to call to discuss plans on going out. To assure that there was plenty of advance time to arrange a fun experience I would call on Monday evening and after the customary small talk I would get around to discussing plans for the upcoming weekend.

Often they would tell me that they never made plans before Wednesday, so call back Wednesday evening. I would. And they already had plans.

Now I didn't take it personal, because it wasn't my "problem," but ...

.. when having fun takes too much work ... it's not fun any more.

There are too many ladies who want to have fun to waste your time.

I agree with Addict I know everyone is different but me personaly and I am going to spend somewhere around $200 bucks they should be available when I am asking and of not say so and I will move on. Again like i said everyone is different but when I am the one paying for something i want it when and how I prefer. Same as going out for dinner Do you leave a good tip if you get S**@Ty service not me Hell if I am sat down to a table and not asked if i would like a drink within about 10 mins I get up and go find a new resturant. I work hard for my money and if a service provider wether it be an escort or a waitress does not give me the service i pay for in my opinion they need to find a different kind of work. If i do a lousy job at my work shit Blows up and People will be killed so I dont have "bad days" I know all are not going to agree with my thinking and that is fine and if a service provider decides to leave a post here and does not agree with me that is fine also and they would not have to worry about me ever contacting them JUST MY OPINION

I appreciate everyones input and advice useful information all.

As a side note, I corresponded with the provider who promted this post originally. She explained the circumstances and I accepted explanation. Although it appears us meeting is not gonna work out, I must state that I have respect for her taking the time to actually explain her reasons why. Best wishes to her and you all.

Happy hobbying

Final Summary:
This shit happens.
Don't let it get to you.
Move on to the next one.
Try not to burn any bridges.

Done and Done