When I started, I offered a date that was meant to be really non rushed and relaxed and every last one of the guys I saw pushed and pushed on the time. So fine. Your time begins when you arrive. Need to shower? That's your time. I will join you but I got cleaned up before you arrived, I don't make you sit there while I do my makeup. First meeting (for an hour date)? I'm getting you water and offering the shower at ten minutes to the end.The Silly Girl has spoken! And I can't disagree with a damn thing she said! Damn It! LOL
Flexibility comes with familiarity. If I know you, and trust you, it's a little more laid back but still, give five minutes and they'll take half an hour. Not everyone true, but I let that slide when I started and it is really disrespectful. Originally Posted by SillyGirl
I have ended two dates early. One guy tried to take the condom off and bb me and I left 20 minutes early. One guy booked two hours, I fucked up and left after 90 minutes. I realized it the next day and he has since been snuggled into forgiving me. Originally Posted by SillyGirlI've had two ladies do this to me. I booked a 90 minute session and she left at 55 minutes. And I booked a 2 hour session, and she left after an hour. Both took the donation for the full time.
Shayla, keep in mind your perspective might be skewed! Guys lucky enough to see you are probably already cuming in their pants two minutes after getting there! Its harder to get from point A to point B with less desirable ladies. I wonder how many guys think about you when they are trying to get a nut? LOL
Note to self: Shayla only bends for 15 minutes. I wonder if that includes doggie?
Originally Posted by Still Looking
I think officially the time starts when we meet. But two hours is enough time for us to do whatever we want- TWICE. We can talk, take a shower, together or separate, play around in the shower, dry off, start again, finish, more small talk, and ready again for round 2. You should definitely not be worried about how tactfully the date is going to end.TJ, do you have saliva in your mouth? Or does your spit just taste like honey? A diabetic could get high reading your posts! LOL
My thoughts is that a lady should have enough time between dates in order not to be bothered by things like showers, and making him comfortable with drinks and small talk. If he overstays by a little bit it shouldn't be that much of an issue. I believe that comfort and flexibility leads to familiarity, but that's only my opinion. Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson
I've had two ladies do this to me. I booked a 90 minute session and she left at 55 minutes. And I booked a 2 hour session, and she left after an hour. Both took the donation for the full time.Sorry to hear that happened to you not cool at all!I enjoy longer appointments to get acquainted with new friends.I feel if a gent books more than an hr there is a time for a quick chat before the naughty fun starts and all that can be covered in the time-frame he booked.
I let them. I don't want to get black-listed. Wish there is a place I could "black list" ladies for screwing with the time. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005
Put it in a review? You probably aren't the only one getting shortchanged. Originally Posted by SillyGirlI don't do reviews except under rare circumstances.