Since they aren't associated with the sex industry and probably have never ventured much past their own relationship. Although you maybe shocked by their reaction, you can't possibly expect them to look past the seedy stigma and criminal aspects of sex work. After all if you really think about it you didn't hesitate to state in this forum that you are a Personal Trainer, but apparently kept strict diligence in allowing anyone in your other forum that you engage in Sex Work on the side. I understand how you feel about the situation you're in with that couple, and I am sure anyone here can sympathize with you. But it simply is the nature of the beast. Originally Posted by acp5762I disagree. I would say it is the nature of those two people, period.
I can understand that they would feel surprise, maybe even shock. I can see if they strongly stated that the escort world was not for them. But if they had been blog members for years then I would have expected a very different reaction: I would not expect them to throw aside what they know of Ava because they believe one aspect is flawed or undesierable. Maybe if they had been short term blog members--or relatively inactive ones--but it takes an exceptionally narrow minded person to say one piece of evidence outweighs years of friendship, even e-friendship.
If we are talking about discovering that a friend is a child molester, drug dealer, then I could understand it. But this is--to me--a sign that this couple is far more close minded than they seemed.
Ava, I am very sorry it happened. But understand they were not really the friends they sold themselves to be. They were not the people you thought they were. All this time you were one wrong comment from having them turn on you all along.