.......But they are drifting to other places, not actually leaving. At least that's what I've been told ........ by them.
Originally Posted by nuglet
it was inevitable to lose some.... Just as it was inevitable for change to occur in an environment more dedicated to the information than in stroking egos....
It is certainly not the same playground as it was just a few months ago.
Originally Posted by nuglet
You are right.... But the "playground" has a lot of new players.....
Some of the "old Guard" simply refused to accept them and let them play in the playground......
I'm sick and tired of hearing there is no sense "community" around here.....
We went from having luncheons with 20-30 guys and 2-3 Providers present once every 3 months to 3 parties in less than 2 months and every time there are new faces and more providers participating.... And attendance grows......
And the Providers present are ladies that the new players participating WANT to meet.... They make those decisions based on reviews, personalities, referrals etc....
Guys are stepping up and bringing ladies to introduce to other guys..... maybe it excludes some but whose fault is that?
Only ONE Provider has ever been declined an invitation and that was to insure that the other ladies present were comfortable.....
AS FOR THE INSIPID, DEGRADING, DISRESPECTFUL COMMENT.. "TIME TO DROP THE TOP SHELF ATTITUDE".. THAT IS A TWO WAY STREET. DAMN RIGHT I'M A WHITE KNIGHT FOR SOME. EVEN THOUGH I HAVEN'T HAD THE PLEASURE OF HER COMPANY, HER CREDS RUN DEEP AND VERY STRONG.
Originally Posted by nuglet
Excuse me... But isn't the basis of a Hobbyist's credentials as determined from some of the elitist arses that make up that "old Guard to be based on their participation in the Hobby over the previous 3 months?
What has she done around here lately?
2 reviews in 6 months and 9 in a year?
Why are there such double standards comparing the credentials of a Hobbyist and a Provider
There are ladies around here now that get talked about more in a week then some of these that are leaving do in a quarter....
isn't that what irks some of you the most? You lost your spotlight...
....Attitudes are a good thing when deserved, and EARNED.
Just saying.. the "scorched earth"attitude" you seem to have lately, isn't necessary, or reflective of your fun side, and it reflects poorly on you Whispers, I thought you were above that type of thing.
Originally Posted by nuglet
Actually.... I left the "attitude" alone for a while to try to help put together a rockin party and fun raiser as well as to lighten up the boards for the holidays..... I've left a lot of threads and comments alone as well as encouraged others to do so as well because I felt the board was at a tipping point and we could just let loose and have some fun.....
She's done nothing to deserve that statement.
Originally Posted by nuglet
Her
"losing good people" comment is what irked me..... I feel it was disrespectful of some of those here today that are trying to make this much more of a community than it has been in the last 12 months.....
A lot of ladies have taken some chances and stepped outside the "Party Line" and found a willing line ready to party with them as well as others.....
There are things happening all over town... people getting together and having fun.... people opening their minds and becoming more tolerant of each other.....
Sorry of a few of the "Adorables" chose to not adapt and don't want to play anymore in this playground....
Ya know what?
Go wherever you want.... They have bigger and better toys here..... Ya know why?
Pussy is easy to find.
Originally Posted by nuglet
Yup...
....I'm just saying that issuing statements like that, are a good way to drag this group down.
Originally Posted by nuglet
I'm sorry......
But In My opinion.....
The party here is just now staring and will only get bigger and better....