Recently started looking into contacting someone for the first time. I am nervous and do not know what to expect. Any tips or pointers for someone starting out? I was looking through tryst and dreamgirl really caught my eye.
Thanks in advance!
Originally Posted by Whiplashxx99
Read as much Eccie content as you can, specifically in the geographic section in which you plan to hobby. When I started reading about the PGH hobby in 2004 there was TheEroticReview (mostly just reviews), The Big Doggie, ASPD (which dominated the PGH hobby in 2004) and then Indys created their forums in early 2005. Now in 2021 the only online forums site for "the hobby"(at least for PGH) is Eccie so you have to go with that. Just browse around and read different hobbyists, particularly in your hobby-region. And spend for Guys Room forum access too. It's arguably the most relevant and useful forum on the board for local hobbyists, though the Co Ed Vouched section is pretty useful too....
There are certain "guidelines" you should follow which others have specified here: 1.) Hobby phone 2.) Hobby email 3.) No "real world" info including your Real Name and Place Of Work to "providers" (or SA girls) EVER. Sure, a lot of the "established" Tryst girls require that intel. If you are willing to give that intel then try to calculate what level of "risk" each provider is. Many of them won't ever share that intel. The issue is you can't determine With....Certainty which ones you Don't have to worry about, and which ones you DO have to worry about....
All the same hobbyist "guidelines" apply to SA girls, and even the "civilian" SA girls who are Brand....New to the game. 1.) No Real Name 2.) No Place Of Employment 3.) Hobby Phone and Hobby Email. I take the added precaution of 4.) No Sessions At My House, even with SA girls. I don't want their "drivers" and "besties" and whatever else types of people to know where I live. So I see SA girls in reasonably-priced motels and hotels. 5.) I don't deal with SA girl "living spaces"- too much risk of "drivers" and boyfriends barging in. Curiously many of the local providers "incalls" are mostly trustworthy if they don't have any negative "press" attached to them.....
The key with SA girls, particularly all "new" SA girls, is to Keep....Them....On.....Task. Don't let them "deviate" from the intended purpose of "pay for play". Don't endure any of their Bullshit: 1.) "Buy from my wishlist so I know you're legit..." 2.) "Can you pay some bills so I know you're legit...?" None of this bullshit would fly on the old ASPD, Indys and the current Eccie. Many SA girls are "new to the game" and think they can "get away with this". Don't deal with any 3.) OnlyFans scams. There is too much of this nonsense on SA but positively there are plenty of Pro....Ho's on SA too....
Acquire all the conducive intel from SA girls Within...The....First....Few.. ...PMs's. 1.) General Availability 2.) General Location (I always rent hotel rooms) 3.) Specific Rate. The Pro Ho's will give you this intel Quickly. The "wishlist" and OnlyFans girls will try to "string you along." With SA girls you should be able to "close the deal" with Legit providers and players Within....A....Week of first PM contact. If you can't "expedite the process" and Set....Firm....Plans to complete a session within a week from first contact then move on. Plenty of girls on SA want to make money Quickly and Safely. Those are the girls to determine and find on SA. And there are plenty of them on SA....
Tolstoy: Still All About "Mentorship" & "Companionship" With SA Girls....