Oh boy...
My advice, first verify she is pregnant and not lying (have her take a test in front of you), then if she is pregnant and you know the condom broke, then there's a chance you are the papa. If she is willing to abort, take her to the clinic and pay for the procedure. Then treat her to a nice lunch or give her a day at the spa to make up for helping her into this mess.
If she is not willing to terminate, then at 5 month she can get an amniocentesis which will have the DNA for a test to see if it's yours. If it is, then you have a lot of figuring out to do.
Good luck, I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy.
Originally Posted by JessicaKnightly
Obviously you need to see for certain she is pregnant, then you just have to wait for a DNA test. If she is willing to terminate, split the cost with her 50/50 and go with her to see that it did in fact happen. Plus, nobody wants to go through that alone, I'm sure. If she isn't willing to get an abortion, then it looks like you possibly have a problem on your hands, and 9 months of uncertainty before you can find out for sure if it is yours. There is the option of Amnio, but most Dr's frown upon it for something as simple as a DNA tests because of the risks associated with it. The part you said about telling her thats her problem is pretty comical. Its actually not if its yours! She'll have you for 18 years! Wish you luck!