What our pictures look like and what men expect

Whats the thread about now?!? Originally Posted by thebuffmantraples

some guy that did not look at all the pic's in her showcase
then said it not her.

I always love it when they ask for my ethnicity. As every ad of mine usually displays ample amount of images of a VERY lovely ebony. lol Originally Posted by Rein_Symone

men aren't detailed in to things like women are usually. like the showcase thread where guys are seeing little details in pics that I click on and don't even care or notice. we call those guys feminine or metro's.

Change ' kiss' to ' pic' and you get a good part of the picture.

Take it away Satchmo...

"Give me a kiss to build a dream on
And my imagination will thrive upon that kiss
Sweetheart, I ask no more than this
A kiss to build a dream on

Give me a kiss before you leave me
And my imagination will feed my hungry heart
Leave me one thing before we part
A kiss to build a dream on

And when I'm alone with my fancies, I'll be with you
Weaving romances, making believe they're true

Oh, give me your lips for just a moment
And my imagination will make that moment live
Give me what you alone can give
A kiss to build a dream on

When I'm alone with my fancies, I'll be with you
Weaving romances, making believe they're true

Oh, give me lips for just a moment
And my imagination will make that moment live
Oh, give me what you alone can give
A kiss to build a dream on "

Songwriters: RUBY, HARRY / HAMMERSTEIN II, OSCAR / KALMAR, BERT

I don't mind minor discrepancies in appearance from a provider's showcase or website. I have a preference for brunettes and may ask if she is currently brunette or other color if I see she has differing colors on her site. Hell, a friend of mine sometimes dyes her hair a combo or red and purple but I still think she's a fox. What I would find objectionable is if their current appearance in no way resembles the photos they provide on their site or showcase, i.e. 10 or 15 yo photos, 40 lbs added now, etc. This is more of a problem on BP (those that aren't stolen), than with this site or p411.

The OP can catch some deep dick action from me for sure. Watch them titties bounce

Are you really saying a showcase should be updated every time a lady fixes her hair differently? That seems a bit extreme. Originally Posted by Old-T

Everyone has things that they value about a whore's appearance when they schedule with her...some value certain things more than others. The OP started this thread because she couldn't believe that someone valued hair style enough to comment about it. I'm telling her that they obviously do, and that if she wants to avoid those comments in the future, she should act accordingly.

Her client proved my assertion, yet she wanted to come here and have us tell her that he was an asshole for having a personal preference. The problem isn't with him...it's with her...

Where is the problem that you have with that?

The OP thinks she looks like this...



The client thought she looked like this...



She can either either ignore the criticism, or she can come here and bitch about the criticism. She chose to come here...

I always love it when they ask for my ethnicity. As every ad of mine usually displays ample amount of images of a VERY lovely ebony. lol Originally Posted by Rein_Symone

With all respect, ethnicity does not mean skin color. It means cultural and national heritage. That you cannot necessarily tell from your pictures.

For example, see: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of..._ethnic_groups

Her client proved my assertion, yet she wanted to come here and have us tell her that he was an asshole for having a personal preference. The problem isn't with him...it's with her... Originally Posted by Wakeup

I did not see where the issue was about personal preference, but about how accurate photos should be, and how much responsibility there is on the client to realize what should be trusted in a photo and what should not. As is often the case you and I disagree about who is responsible for what.

With all respect, ethnicity does not mean skin color. It means cultural and national heritage. That you cannot necessarily tell from your pictures.

For example, see: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of..._ethnic_groups Originally Posted by sketchball82

While I technically agree with you, that is not generally how the term is used on here. Look at the choices under the "Ethnicity" pull-down in the new review template.

Cheap bastards everywhere.

[I]I did not see where the issue was about personal preference, but about how accurate photos should be, and how much responsibility there is on the client to realize what should be trusted in a photo and what should not.[COLOR=Blue] Originally Posted by Old-T

i have been particularly jaded over time as i look over pics in a showcase or an ad. i have always noted certain 'things' ...

1) strategically positioned clothing - when pics show a certain body part covered that USUALLY means said body part has issues ...

2) certain poses reduce certain body part sizes ... always on back, belly looks flat(ter) ...

3) discrepancies between stated weight and full body shot sizing ... never met a woman over 5' tall with big thighs that weighed 100# unless they had a 20" waist.

4) tattoos airbrushed out of pics ... on of my favs has many but none show in pics - for whatever reason.

i do rely on the ROS in reviews for a lot of info and this is by no means a 'complaint' post. misleading heritage descriptions make me laugh out loud. i have been fooled by pics to my delight ...

While I technically agree with you, that is not generally how the term is used on here. Look at the choices under the "Ethnicity" pull-down in the new review template.
Originally Posted by Old-T

I know. People misuse it all the time. But my point was its good to know the technical meaning because if someone is asking you your ethnicity and your skin color has already been clearly established, then it stands to reason they do mean the technical definition (i.e., what is your heritage). .. that or alternatively your skin color is not as clear from you pictures as you think (I've definitely seen this in several pictures; trying to determine if someone is tanned or ebony). In either event, that's something that is important to know.

But thanks for the feedback. It helps me be more clear about my intention. But I don't want to hijack the thread. This is just a small clarification that may help someone go: "Derp. Ohh get it."

I did not see where the issue was about personal preference... Originally Posted by Old-T

The fact that you didn't see it doesn't change my response in the slightest...

There seems to be this misperception that photos don't lie. They lie like a dog.
Ms Tze's avatar pic is shot with a flat faceon lighting that is going to minimize any sort of body curvature and, in this case, make her boobs look smaller . It will also make the skin seem lighter. The way her shoulders are pulled back along with the camera angle also minimize the apparent size of her funbags.
Famous actresses are notorious for insisting that the key light in their shots are from a specific side and angle that they know to be most flattering.
Compare the other pics with her avatar and see what effect the angled lighting has along with other factors such as pose, type of light etc.

btw, that dress shot hugging your booty is a killer and I'd brrrmski it and your luscious boobs any day.

The fact that you didn't see it doesn't change my response in the slightest... Originally Posted by Wakeup

I saw your point. I made no attempt to change your point. I just do not agree with it. And I disagree that your point was the original point. It is related, but not the same one.

Even outside the hobby, I am always amazed at how different women can look from one day to the next, or one event to the next. If I were looking at a hobby shot, I would like to know that the provider does or could look like my personal preferences--and those would have to be communicated to her. Some people like the All-American Girl/Girl Next Door look, or athletic or spinner or lots of makeup or no makeup or whatever. I would look for photos along the lines of what I want, and then let the provider know that I would like her to try for that kind of look when I meet her.