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Post her photo to see if we know her.

No offense dude, but after my last divorce and spousal payoff, family considerations can bite my ass.
I'll lie to my mom and tell her we're married if she's that concerned about it.

The sarcastic and nasty nature of most of these comments is interesting.

I am a businessman who is not patticularly naive. The lady involved is a very good woman despite her prior occupation. She was rather expensive so probably she is not known by many on this site.

Family considerations on both sides make marriage the right thing in this case. Originally Posted by Nick11796

With all due respect, this is probably not the appropriate forum to expect serious answers.

If you guys want to get married, go for it. I would suggest a long talk about ground rules and expectations. So she used to be a provider and you used to see providers. Are you both going to stop doing that or are you both ok with an open marriage? Those are things that need to get sorted out. It is probably as likely to work as any other marriage. Some folks have affairs and get married, I would think this would be a lot the same.

So now we're cheap?!?!?! WTF???

I almost married one several years ago. Looking back, I'm glad I didn't because my life would've been miserable. The lasting power of any serious relationship originating from the hobby is extremely low. The odds are already against you. You might say "this one is different." Is she really? How long have you known her?

I would suggest checking into common law marriages in Texas. Even if you don't get formally married, she could still be entitled to half your assets should the relationship not work out. If you're a successful businessman, I'd hate to see half your stuff go bye-bye just like that.

Ever hear the old saying: You're gonna hate yourself in the morning.....

Who was it that said, "marriage is the death of hope?"

My lady was in the profession because she earned a good living. She looked at things solely in that manner. Her clients were mostly visiting businessmen. Outside of "work" she lived a very middle class life.

Now she gets attention from men because she is good looking. However, she is completely faithful and has been a great companion in all respects.

Go for it

PARIS LOVE!!! the tall blonde...so that's where she went...

How about staying on the subject matter?

And actually, this should be in CO-ED and not ISO.

My advice:
Give her half of everything you own now.
Then have her kick you in the nuts.
It's the same as being married only cheaper when you break up!

This is none of my business but why do you feel you need to get married? Living together is great, that way should you decide you want out, you just pack your shit and move on. Divorces are a pain in the ass and cost a ton of money...
Originally Posted by Valerie

I can't get away from just this comment here......... Nobody is in your shoes except for you and you are a grown ass man and can do what you want...... but the question is, is that if she was in fact "in the profession because she earned a good living" does that mean that you are still that "good living"? Or are you something more? I say give being a live-in GF for an extended period of time before you go off and commit half of your assets in a business agreement (which is essentially what a marriage is these days afterall)....... if after that extended time you still feel the nostalgia and need to legally/emotionally/religiously get married, then by all means have at it and the very best of luck....... but so many variables and so much baggage (no matter what her reasoning for being in the business may have been) comes along with someone who worked in the "erotic" business that is this hobby that all caution should be exercised when delving into something of this magnatude......


Good luck sir!

JaD

In all seriousness...If you feel the need to marry this girl, then by all means go for it. Personally, I don't think the age difference is a big deal (as I prefer to date men a lot older than myself). I don't know the details of your situation, but you'd be a fool not to get a prenup, if she has a problem with that then I would tell her to fuck off...

This is none of my business but why do you feel you need to get married? Living together is great, that way should you decide you want out, you just pack your shit and move on. Divorces are a pain in the ass and cost a ton of money...

In any case, good luck to you, whatever you decide.. Originally Posted by Valerie

Words of wisdom. I think you are far better just living together provided you can handle her still escorting. Don't expect she will willingly give that up either. If she is pressuring you for marriage then I would be very cautious.

" is a very good Woman despite Her prior occupation".

Is that to say that Ladies who are still in the Provider Business are NOT good Ladies.