BP VS Eccie VS P411???

There you have it. Time, money and a higher tolerance for risk. Though no-one wanted to seem to be the cheapo and mention the fact that BP girls are generally less expensive to see. They often also offer time periods as short as 15min and their rates reflect that. And before the providers jump on the "I don't want those clients" train. Most of you have them but they don't mention they see those girls for that reason. I can take or leave the whole illusion of passion thing, so often paying a premium for someone to pretend like they like me for an hour, isn't worth it. Versus paying someone for 30min for what I really want, but that is just me. There is a market for everything and everybody.

My hobbying falls into two categories. Either a very small amount of time or plenty of time. So if I go to see a provider, it is because I have less than an hour to spend. Those times are usually not known when they will occur so I will check BP and see if someone I have seen before has posted in the last 8 hours or so. If not I may try someone new or just forget about.

And risk tolerance. Well I no longer find a thrill in being the first to report on a new find or anything. So I much prefer to see well reviewed providers. But what cool is a lot of BP girls are reviewed quite well on this site. That reduces the risk and you still get BP rates. I was looking through the Eccie Ads today and provider even mentions in her sig line that she has different contact info on her BP ad, so don't expect p411 or eccie service if you call on that number.

So take your pick. All - none or other. Everyone will have their own combinations of reasons, just like their reasons not for not seeing or admit to seeing girls that advertise on BP.

There you have it. Time, money and a higher tolerance for risk. Though no-one wanted to seem to be the cheapo and mention the fact that BP girls are generally less expensive to see. They often also offer time periods as short as 15min and their rates reflect that. And before the providers jump on the "I don't want those clients" train. Most of you have them but they don't mention they see those girls for that reason. I can take or leave the whole illusion of passion thing, so often paying a premium for someone to pretend like they like me for an hour, isn't worth it. Versus paying someone for 30min for what I really want, but that is just me. There is a market for everything and everybody.

My hobbying falls into two categories. Either a very small amount of time or plenty of time. So if I go to see a provider, it is because I have less than an hour to spend. Those times are usually not known when they will occur so I will check BP and see if someone I have seen before has posted in the last 8 hours or so. If not I may try someone new or just forget about.

And risk tolerance. Well I no longer find a thrill in being the first to report on a new find or anything. So I much prefer to see well reviewed providers. But what cool is a lot of BP girls are reviewed quite well on this site. That reduces the risk and you still get BP rates. I was looking through the Eccie Ads today and provider even mentions in her sig line that she has different contact info on her BP ad, so don't expect p411 or eccie service if you call on that number.

So take your pick. All - none or other. Everyone will have their own combinations of reasons, just like their reasons not for not seeing or admit to seeing girls that advertise on BP. Originally Posted by diud-diud

This is an excellent reply and probably the most pragmatic view of the types of clients that seek out BP providers. If I was a hobbyist with limited time to spend on such endeavors, I would feel utterly cheated by paying someone $250 for a 15 minute quickie, especially if it was someone I saw for a full hour fairly regularly. Now I LOVE quickies and more frequently than not, my schedule would accommodate that multiple times a week while longer extended visits are only plausible for me once or twice a month. Of course I don't participate in these illegal shenanigans as I'm sure none of you do either.

Mariagoddess - Its like why do you stop at a garage sale when you are on the way to the Mall? ha ha ha Then you get there and have to sift thru a bunch of CRAP to end up with something you didn't even want! <snip>


Gotta love backpage!
Originally Posted by ItalianaPrincess

I love your analogy. Finding that diamond in the rough at a bargain price can be tempting to pursue.

I use BP for body rubs/massages because of the price and location (near me). With all the well reviewed ladies on ECCIE, I wouldn't consider going "outside" for + services anymore. The few times I did, I regretted it. Not because of a particularly bad session, but because so much better is available here for the same or just a little more money.

Some of the girls start out on BP because they don't know any better and then end up here and P411.

I saw a lady today that told me she finds nicer men off backpage and i asked her why and she said that She told me " Eccie men all try to bargin and bargin and bargin and pay for an hour and have to make them leave from staying over and wanitng more time because they think they are eccie members"..
I guess there are good and bad of all as i mentioned early today. I love backpage ladies and never had a bad experience. But i do not see young ones so maybe that is why.

Mariagoddess - Its like why do you stop at a garage sale when you are on the way to the Mall? ha ha ha Then you get there and have to sift thru a bunch of CRAP to end up with something you didn't even want!


There's like an 8% chance they might find a diamond in the rough....

92% chance they might get robbed , slapped by a pimp , Bait N' Switched , or NCNS'd...



Gotta love backpage!
Originally Posted by ItalianaPrincess

I love garage sales, We all know the mall is overpriced, I disagree with the 92% exaggeration

BP has been good to me BUT eccie has been better

Another why bp instead of eccie thread. How lovely.....


Well not sure why people are judging where people advertise, who cares, do your research on the chick and you should be fine. Not all of us are scammers, and not all of us are going to put our eggs in one basket for advertisement, that is not good business. Same for the men, these men want new pussy, the chase, the thrill, the hunt, some of the eccie guys are smart, they are adults, they know how to research a girl, before seeing them.

These guys are not obligated to see eccie ladies, hell half the ladies on here advertise on backpage, they all scream how they can't stand backpage, but yet, when times are slow, I see all their ads, one by one. And I laugh my ass off.

Its not about where the provider advertises, it about the provider and how she represents herself and how she conducts her bcd and tcb.

Just my 01. cents.

YOu could have not said it any better Lisa Lisa!!

My advice; join P411.

From a risk management and simplicity perspective, I never do anything but P411 cross-referenced with ECCIE and maybe Spokeo....and, of course, WoM/personal introductions from my 3-4 trusted providers....I'd rather pay more and get what I want/need, where and when I need it... time is money and my time is too friggen valuable ($500+/hr) to waste...

[QUOTE=Italiana Princess........Then you get there and have to sift thru a bunch of CRAP to end up with something you didn't even want!..........:[/QUOTE]


That happens here as well, but on BP, I only have to sift through false/misleading ads.

On ECCIE I have to sift through misleading ads, misleading,reviews, fake/self reviews, and drama in response to critical comments.


Other benefits of BP:
Providers do not call/email previous girls I have seen and plan to see again.
A provider typically will charge bp clients less than they do on P411

One would think that girls would want to charge P411 clients less because they are generally less risky..but it does not seem to work that way.

My advice; join P411. Originally Posted by khloecruise

I co sign to this post!

I have noticed lately a lot of reviews of girls that have NCNS and then it says they are from BP. Im just curious why guys choose girls on BP over girls from Eccie/P411 or any other established board? Most guys who have been on this board for a bit do KNOW that not all but some girls from BP do not end up well. Whether they NCNS or you get your money stolen or worse. Originally Posted by maria goddess

Because the Eccie girls don't answer their phones or emails?

I like consistency. BP has a lot of turnover and so many times what you see is not what you get. It's hard to explain, but the whole thought of going to a new place, meeting the lady etc is in itself stimulating to some men. The notion that the encounter is 50/50 at best is still enough to go through the entire process. Wow, that lady is so hot, I can't wait to get over there. Like ItalianPrincess said, usually its a disappoint.

If the date sucked, usually the guy leaves with wtf just happened? Why did I go through with that? Especially if a third part (I.e. pimp et.al.) is involved. If things go smoothly you drive away saying that was great, but rarely will you go see that BP lady again in the future. Again, just my 2 cents.

The hobby in general has really changed over the past 5/7 years. Boards like ECCIE have helped, but there is alway the question of what you are reading is actually true or not. Some guys stretch the truth to satisfy thei own fantasy and when another guys looks for that same encounter and does not get it...disappointment...thus I should be looking elsewhere. I.e. BP

Like I said in an earlier post in this thread, BP is good for body rub/massage, but I personally would not use it for FS ladies. J.G. W has mentioned a good point, but eventually, one or two might get back with you. As far as consistency goes, ECCIE VP ladies are more so than ladies who advertise on BP alone, but as far as true, 100% consistency goes, I would not give it to the ECCIE ladies, and as lisa.lisa pointed out, it is the lady, not where she happens to advertise. So basically, it is a crap shoot sometimes no matter where you go to find your provider, but that is the nature of the hobby.