Size of Provider

Thanks Kend61...! I myself am voluptuous. Always cautious on how I present myself. I can get up in the am and feel On Top of the World... But when the world looks down on you because of my size.. The end of the day isn't so hot. I am 100% natural and it's a daily struggle.. NOT one that I am giving up on! I am currently looking for a training partner...

On a positive not.. Hobby life helps me w/ my Cardio!!! LOL Thank you all for assisting in that area!!

Reese.....

You know what, screw that guy who said whatever he said, I've seen your avatar with your booty in your jeans and I freaking love it.....you have a cute booty now!

I bet you gained alot of interest with your weight now.

Nevermind.........Reese you are fine! Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

Guilty as charged!! Though in all fairness I've been a huge fan since the very beginning!

Thank you Kend61 for speaking on a touchy subject for providers and clients alike. I was not upset when it was stated that I had put on weight..because lord knows I am aware of it..lol. I am upset at myself for allowing myself to gain the extra weight and it has nothing to do with my business and everything to do with my personal opinion of myself.

I am working on my weight issue because I am not pleased with it. I have always weighed between 95 (in my 20's) and 115. Now, well, I will just say I am neither of those. My gentlemen friends have never had an issue with it....I hobby love them so much!

Now, I just have to figure out how to tone up and keep my booty!

Kend61, thank you again and I am so happy to have met such a kind gentleman. You are absolutely the sweetest man!

Now, to the men who have nothing nice to say about ladies you aren't attracted to, who cares what you think? You won't ever walk through their door, so why be nasty?
If a lady isn't properly representing herself, then fine...makes complete sense to be upset if you aren't attracted, but 5 or 10lbs is easy to gain and much harder to lose. Cut us a break. Originally Posted by reese foster

once again reese you said everything i wanted to say already, let me know when you find out that trick because i love my booty but want to tone up a little bit too.

I have to agree with Sawyer on this issue. There is something great about having big tits to look at and getting lost in the cleavage! And although Reese and Sunny do not fall into that category, they have got everything else covered. And for the voluptuous ladies (Lisa.Lisa, Autumn Spring, Jules, Dharma, and all of the others on this site), you are the real women of the world and carry yourselves as such.

There are 2 kinds:
Good ole biggins' and big ole goodins'
You can use them to lay your head on (both) and them suck on them! So take your choice. As for me just rub them up against me!

Later
GTC

Reese, Jules and others... if you want to get a toned body you need to eat healthy, drink plenty of water, exercise, stretch and try to take daily walks. It's best to join a gym and get in the habit of going. Some gyms offers free classes as part of you membership.

I've came across several providers who've divulged their habits (bad ones) like not eating breakfast or eating cheese and crackers as a meal, smoking, and the list goes on.


You can target specific areas like:

• Legs - jogging or fast-paced walking
• Butt - squats with body weight but adding weight is more beneficial
• Abs - Crunches, leg lifts, plank
• Thighs - Lunges, squats, leg curls
• Arms - Bicep and tricep exercies like curls or pushdowns

The most important thing is start doing something, take action, and stick with it for awhile. Once you start seeing results, your motivation will only increase. If you don't start seeing results within as little as two weeks, then you're doing something wrong and need to correct it.

BTW, Autumn, I'd love to do a cardio session with you any time!!!

Good luck to those that want to make a change!

Thanks Kend61...! I myself am voluptuous. Always cautious on how I present myself. I can get up in the am and feel On Top of the World... But when the world looks down on you because of my size.. The end of the day isn't so hot. I am 100% natural and it's a daily struggle.. NOT one that I am giving up on! I am currently looking for a training partner...

On a positive not.. Hobby life helps me w/ my Cardio!!! LOL Thank you all for assisting in that area!! Originally Posted by AutumnSpring

+1
couldn't have said it better myself!

I can truthfully say that I don't give two flips about size, looks or education, unless it's grossly over- or under-weight, you resemble Boris Karloff or you're congenitally stupid.. Personality is everything!!! Make me feel important, show me a decent time, and I'm yours. Truly!

Lucky for me, my boyfriend is a personal trainer/pro fighter and he is in INCREDIBLE shape. He is a fantastic motivator and helps me work out and eat right.

He loooves my big boobies and ass and wouldn't want me any other way. I know I need to lose some weight, but I'm doing it the right way and it takes time. I don't ever want to be 100lbs, that's not me! I will always be bigger, and I am happy with that, and it has taken me a very long time to see myself that way!

I just can't stand when people stereotype that bigger/fat/bbw/voluptuous/whatever-you-wanna-call-us, girls are lazy, gross or not healthy. I have been told so many times that I have exceeded expectations and I'm the first "big" girl they've been attracted to.

So don't be so quick to judge on appearance. Body types are sooo unique - two girls could weigh the EXACT same weight but look completely differently based on how it's distributed on their body.


xoxo JY

I am soooo glad this was Posted. I am 5'10... and look like Xena for Christs sake. My weight fluctuates, much like Dharma said. I retain water at certain times of the month, and due to 2 major Back surgeries, the pain limits me from being as active as I would like. So when a man 5'4 comes to the door, he is somewhet shocked. I always try to tell people how tall I am, and that I am pretty athletically built. 10 pounds on ME looks like 30. I have had MANY people critisize my weight on this board in the past. I am not a size 5, matter of fact, I dont remember the last time I was. It hurts my feelings when men from 10 years ago get on here and talk about how " fat" a provider is. Once thing I CAN say.. is unless you gents are on a serious work out mission... betcha don't look like YOU did 10 years ago either.

Life happens... My service is 2nd to none for what I provide. Question is... you looking for a "barbie" who can' t perform worth a fuck, or a good looking provider who knock your socks off. LOL I guess if this is YOUR fantasy, you want what you want... and I can't and won't argue with THAT.

Good Thread.

sdguy08, So, you saying that being overweight is a result of overeating and not enough exercise? Really? OMG! I had no idea! And you're telling us that if join this "gym" we can take "classes"? Wow! You even listed exercises and you told us what each one can do for us? And you promise they will actually work? So eating breakfast is good but smoking is bad and we should exercise. I think I've got it now! You are so smart! Maybe someday, we'll be as ensmartened as you. And we'll be skinny, bonus! Thank you so much for posting that info. We honestly had no idea. Thank you for educating us. We'll get right on that.

Please do not misunderstand me...in no way do I want to weigh 95 lbs again. In fact, I would love to stay the weight I am and just tone up. I have only heard one comment about my weight (being a negative thing) through the grapevine and well, I have never seen that gentleman, BCD even when I was thinner, so I take his comment with a grain of salt. I have started on a work out regimen (thanks Surge). I hope to see results soon. If not, I will keep working on it until I am happy. Thanks again to everyone that has had something positive to say.

Steverino... I knew I should have just asked you dammit!

sdguy08, So, you saying that being overweight is a result of overeating and not enough exercise? Really? OMG! I had no idea! And you're telling us that if join this "gym" we can take "classes"? Wow! You even listed exercises and you told us what each one can do for us? And you promise they will actually work? So eating breakfast is good but smoking is bad and we should exercise. I think I've got it now! You are so smart! Maybe someday, we'll be as ensmartened as you. And we'll be skinny, bonus! Thank you so much for posting that info. We honestly had no idea. Thank you for educating us. We'll get right on that. Originally Posted by Dharma

Dharma, where did I mention "overweight" in my post?

I have enjoyed women of every size, remember I am retired Military and after six years in SEA I thought any woman that weighed more than 90 lbs was BBW. Well I have learned much since then and have enjoyed many real BBW gals as well as the occasional American spinner.

As I said, I enjoy all body types but as first noted by my favorite BBW Sexy Serenity (damn, miss her), when I cross the line and get into trouble it is invariably a Tall Busty Brunette. In fact I was talking to one of my TBB Gal Pals and we were talking about Providers we both liked and she said, "Hell if we were all in a room people would think we were sisters". I find it more than a little troubling that I am much more excited by that image than disturbed.

As for girls putting on some weight not indicated by her posted pics, I kinda expect the pic to present her in her best light so unless it is dramatic I don't care too much. I think we all worry about that too much, take THE DANNIE as she was returning from her 2 1/2 year, er, sabbatical she was fretting to me that she had gained weight and wanted new pics so guys would not give her a hard time. When I saw the pics I was floored yes she gained some weight, I think it all went to her boobs. She also went blond so I guess I am safe....Yeah, shit Jack is in so much trouble and coming off the DL next week!

Please do not misunderstand me...in no way do I want to weigh 95 lbs again. In fact, I would love to stay the weight I am and just tone up. I have only heard one comment about my weight (being a negative thing) through the grapevine and well, I have never seen that gentleman, BCD even when I was thinner, so I take his comment with a grain of salt. I have started on a work out regimen (thanks Surge). I hope to see results soon. If not, I will keep working on it until I am happy. Thanks again to everyone that has had something positive to say.

Steverino... I knew I should have just asked you dammit! Originally Posted by reese foster

Reese, if you were referring to my post, it was not about losing weight, i.e. getting skinny, but some tips on toning up.

@sdguy~Are you trying to now say that you believe not eating breakfast and eating cheese and crackers for a meal results only in a flabby body and not an overweight one? You actually saying that you only meant that a body should be toned? Seriously? All that advice is only so that the overweight ladies can be toned. Got it.

It that case, you are in err. How do you know that they are not? How would you know if they're in good shape or not? Your comments were well intended I'm sure. But they came across as mean. They were clearly aimed at only certain larger ladies.