My first ECCIE client

It seems sometimes the very people looking down at hookers are perpetuating the negative connotation given to sex work and provoking “ideals” that somehow being a hooker is something that we all should be ashamed of. Personally, I’d much rather be ashamed if I were the chick who goes home with any guy from the bar (for free) waking up to who knows what next to you and without that person adding any real value to your life.

When we add value to others, we boost their confidence, encourage their passions, and drive them to success. A likely result from any of that is to feel proud imo

Just because a hooker expresses a feeling of proudness towards her experiences , accomplishments or milestones in this line of work doesn’t mean she’s actually proud to be a hooker. Anyone can take pride in their work and what they deem to be accomplishments and when later remembered in a number of ways and/or comparisons that can make them feel proud of themselves

Originally Posted by Analeese

In my amateur opinion, I would surmise that many women, as they approach their 30's and aren't married and aren't where they want to be in life probably look back on all the pussy they gave away, simply because a guy was cute or 'had game'.

I honestly think the stigma of escorting/hooking is fed by guys to play on the psyche of women, and even to some extent, other men. We've all seen how some women act on any assertion that they're a hooker.

Being an older guy these days, I've become invisible to 19-year olds. A couple jobs ago I was that 'uncool, old guy', which pretty much meant I was a nuisance with any flirty gestures I made at girls half my age. Being young once, I remember seeing those guys. Now I'm one of them.

The cruel, relentless hands of time.

Ahhh, but thanks to you lovely young ladies, I can skip the 'game' part of being a guy and get laid the easy way.

To bang young chicks in your 50's and beyond, you gotta do shit right in your 20's and 30's. The first step is taking care of your body. Young girls don't want any part of flabby old men. If they can tolerate being with you physically if you're not in shape, they're probably getting their fill of young male flesh by fucking a football player on the side.

Second thing is (this should be first, actually), you might wanna have a strong financial base. A decked out crib and a Corvette that you save for the weekend will go a long way, even if you aren't physically awesome for your age.

Being in charge of a few people helps as well. If you're sweeping floors or flipping burgers at these ages, then yeah. It's going to be an uphill battle to get those young girls.

For you 'young' hobbyists (by that I mean in your 30's), if you haven't started doing these things yet, you'd best get going if you want to keep fucking young strange.

Sorry for straying off topic a bit here.

Randall is spot on. I have little interest in the 20 something hotties but I would much rather have a hooker in her 30’s or 40’s because the real world bitches (not all but most) are not into sex. Some are horny and in their prime but their baggage is a pain in the ass. Renting it for the hour is far better

Thank you all for sharing. I remember going for a massage in HEB in 2000. Had an unbelievable first massage that led to so much more over time. Saw her often for the better part of 15 years and still think of her. Wow sometimes real connections do happen. Be safe ya’ll!

Thanks for all of the Complements. I received a few messages asking how different do I look from a few years ago until now... thought I would share on the threads pic from March : )

Op. Great ad. I mean pic.

I've personally seen Carmella and can honestly say that she is genuinely sweet, attentive and drama free. Perhaps for once we can be nice and lay off the OP.

No I think it’s an ad. It’s not an attack or anything personal. If my opinion is not popular among white knights I don’t care

You look GREAT!

Looking good!

Advertising is a lot harder now, as is finding that sweetheart we all look for. Maybe it's a thinly veiled ad, but who cares?

No I think it’s an ad. It’s not an attack or anything personal. If my opinion is not popular among white knights I don’t care Originally Posted by FunMonday

Perhaps, but that certainly is nothing new nor is her post anywhere near as blatant or egregious as many others.

As for me being a WK, lol please! But we don't always have to be negative, especially with a provider who is always nice to others.

To bang young chicks in your 50's and beyond, you gotta do shit right in your 20's and 30's. The first step is taking care of your body. Young girls don't want any part of flabby old men. Originally Posted by Randall Creed

Let me fix that paragraph for you:

To bang young chicks in your 50's and beyond, you gotta do shit right in your 20's and 30's. The first step is taking care of your education and job prospects. Young girls don't want any part of flabby old men who don't have lots of cash. If you've got enough dough, you don't even have to take care of yourself, beyond knowing how to take a good bath.

No guys I’m not trying to turn this into a Ad. Just being nice

No guys I’m not trying to turn this into a Ad. Just being nice Originally Posted by Carmella_love69

Yeah Sure OK LOL..........Not sure why people get all bent out of shape with others people opinions, I posted my feelings and some of you posted yours that I don't agree with

Fact of the matter is, when we do bad things we find a way to justify it to make it OK in our own heads. I'll leave it at that

I think it is more prevalent that us providers remember our first client. It is a scary and nerve racking thing! But, I will say .... I am definitely glad I got the courage to do it!
Wouldn't trade this experience for anything in the world.


On a second note, for what I've seen on this thread, the trolls are out again.


MTABSW - you made a good point. It takes too much energy to deal with the negativity they post. On the other hand, it is quite comical to see how they love to make an a** out of themselves.


CREED - I certainly appreciate your comments. Many times you surprise me with your insight.


Hugs to all,
Torre