It seems sometimes the very people looking down at hookers are perpetuating the negative connotation given to sex work and provoking “ideals” that somehow being a hooker is something that we all should be ashamed of. Personally, I’d much rather be ashamed if I were the chick who goes home with any guy from the bar (for free) waking up to who knows what next to you and without that person adding any real value to your life.In my amateur opinion, I would surmise that many women, as they approach their 30's and aren't married and aren't where they want to be in life probably look back on all the pussy they gave away, simply because a guy was cute or 'had game'.
When we add value to others, we boost their confidence, encourage their passions, and drive them to success. A likely result from any of that is to feel proud imo
Just because a hooker expresses a feeling of proudness towards her experiences , accomplishments or milestones in this line of work doesn’t mean she’s actually proud to be a hooker. Anyone can take pride in their work and what they deem to be accomplishments and when later remembered in a number of ways and/or comparisons that can make them feel proud of themselves
Originally Posted by Analeese
I honestly think the stigma of escorting/hooking is fed by guys to play on the psyche of women, and even to some extent, other men. We've all seen how some women act on any assertion that they're a hooker.
Being an older guy these days, I've become invisible to 19-year olds. A couple jobs ago I was that 'uncool, old guy', which pretty much meant I was a nuisance with any flirty gestures I made at girls half my age. Being young once, I remember seeing those guys. Now I'm one of them.
The cruel, relentless hands of time.
Ahhh, but thanks to you lovely young ladies, I can skip the 'game' part of being a guy and get laid the easy way.
To bang young chicks in your 50's and beyond, you gotta do shit right in your 20's and 30's. The first step is taking care of your body. Young girls don't want any part of flabby old men. If they can tolerate being with you physically if you're not in shape, they're probably getting their fill of young male flesh by fucking a football player on the side.
Second thing is (this should be first, actually), you might wanna have a strong financial base. A decked out crib and a Corvette that you save for the weekend will go a long way, even if you aren't physically awesome for your age.
Being in charge of a few people helps as well. If you're sweeping floors or flipping burgers at these ages, then yeah. It's going to be an uphill battle to get those young girls.
For you 'young' hobbyists (by that I mean in your 30's), if you haven't started doing these things yet, you'd best get going if you want to keep fucking young strange.
Sorry for straying off topic a bit here.